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So you start dating your best friend who you've had a huge crush on for months - He is caring, shares a similar sense of humour to you, is physically attractive to you, seems to be decently honest & loyal, is understanding when you are anxious/irritated by something rather than being annoyed, reassures you when you need it, and promises on your and his life that you are his one true love and even wants to marry you!

Problem? He doesn't put much effort into the relationship or show much eagerness to see you. After 10 months you have not been on one date together and mainly just hang out in each others houses in one of your rooms all day apart from a few exceptions where you go on a trip with their family or a short trip such as Tesco alone with them. You are growing bored of this. Your mum even keeps saying maybe he's more like a friend.

You fear you are starting to lose interest in him though still like him a bit but things desperately need to be sorted v/soon. You're not sure if he is the right one for you which pains you but you keep feeling uncomfortable about it and your family do not think you have ever been very happy with your boyfriend.

You have spoke to him about it a few times now but only very recently have been firmer with it. He says he will do everything he can to keep you and even gets very upset when he fears losing you, to the point of crying and having "that sinking feeling".

You want to work things out but are worried you may just be pro-longing the break up. He is also currently the only guy you are all that interested in and possibly the only one who is that understanding of your problems.

You see each other twice a week for 9 hours though it used to be just once a week + he has in the past cancelled meeting with excuses like being tired and his leg and back aching a bit from when he went on Alton Towers ride.

What would you do?

He's a great guy and everything. But I just feel he's not trying as hard anymore. We do spend a lot of time together and he's still great to me... but I just can't help but feel that something's lacking.

I can't put my finger on what, and I have no definitive proof since he's forever telling me how hard he's falling for me/how lucky he is to have me and all the rest. But it's got to the point where I feel he's overcompensating :/.

As well as that, he does work from 6am til 2pm so he's almost always tired... and lately he keeps falling asleep on me. I don't mind it since I know he's tired, but he used to be a bit more to be perkier around me regardless.

And I feel that anytime I try and make conversation with him lately, it goes nowhere. Yeah, he wants to hug, kiss, feel me up and all the rest. But at the end of the day, actually having a proper conversation is beginning to feel like a rarity.

I just dont get what's up.