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I'm seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He's great - sweet, funny, nice looking, similar interests and we just get eachother. I've been dating him for a while but I am really confused. I'm not falling in love with him, but I don't want to stop seeing him either. This makes me wonder if he could be a romantic match or that he's just a good friend. Because what I noticed is that I think I like him better when he's around his friends/people he knows than when he's with me alone.

Maybe we're dating wrong? We've been on several dates, including dinner, cinema, with him at home watching a film and going to a boardgame night together. And since we kinda have the same social connections we hang out together in friendgroups too. We're both members of studentclubs that also work together to organize activities and parties - me a choir, he a dramagroup. For example I went to see some plays he starred in and went to a pub afterwards with him and his friends.

I'm probably holding back more than I should when it comes to the touching and kissing bit... (just to be clear we did kiss) but I'm not sure if I want to do all that stuff before I'm certain I like him that way.

I've been in love before with this other guy and went through everything before - being unable to eat, sleep, feeling tons butterflies, wanting to listen to lovesongs all day, thinking about him (other guy) all the time - however he wasn't interested in me. This guy does seem interested in me, tho, but said impact isn't happening with this guy (or very very very slowly?). All I feel is a little nervous around him. However I do feel jealous when I think of him with another girl and I'd hate the thought of never seeing him again.

Ugh, it's so confusing.. what do you guys think?

So I live in Asia and I've been on tinder for awhile. I have been out with a few girls. By the end of the night they all turn physical in some way or another. After the first encounter, they lose interest.

I have recently fallen for one of the girls who is not Asian. After our night together, she did message a day later and then we chatted everyday. She would analyse all my posts on WeChat, was instantly jealous of other girls etc and would say I'm not serious blah blah about her. She leads an interesting lifestyle and is quite sexually active. She told me that I'm playing with fire by wanting her but I believed that she was falling for me because she couldn't stay away from contacting me and also all the inwuiring. There was a connection.

This weekend however, she didn't seem in a rush to make plans with me. Her whole weekend mapped out but not including me. I just said you know what, you are playing games with me and I deleted her and said let's move on. She tried to add me again but I feel so sad because I am into her and wanted to make something happen between us.

I just feel she wasn't very serious.