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I’m thinking of telling her how I feel and asking if she wants to get dinner or a drink.

Lots of times, I definitely think she’s into me. My best friend who is a girl thinks she’s totally into me. That friend told the girl I’m interested in that she liked me, and she was adamant against her telling me and since then they’ve had a bad relationship.

The girl I like is pretty flirty, she sits next to me in meetings and jokes and picks on me. We Snapchat a lot (less recently) and text all thr time, though a lot of that is Student Senate related. When were going to a meeting or class, she always asks if I want to walk with her or if I need a ride. Lately, I’ve been going to her house and talking with her about jobs, what to do after college, whether to go to law school, and just life. One time at lunch with out mutual friend, she asked me if I’d hold her hand at the store, and I laughed (thinking joke) but she seemed genuinely sad. The members of Student Senate think there is something going on between us.

Last spring at a huge school party day, she came into my room and begged me to take shots. I did, but there she asked why my friend hated her and said that she did not like me more than a friend if that was the problem. But, she says she doesn’t remember anything from that night. Also, she frequently has invited me to drink with her friends.

This past week her, our mutual friend and some other went to a bar after a big gala on campus. I sent her a snap of me in my tux and she said “daaannng boooiii.” At the bar we had a blast, and talked a lot and flirted a bit. Her friends asked me to get her to do a particular dance, and I took that to mean she might be into me if she’d do it for me. That Sunday, I went over and talked to her for a bit. After I left, she told me she tried to set me up with this “really pretty” girl but she was engaged at the bar. My friend told me she was probably looking to see how I’d respond. Thoughts?