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Search Results: getting over someone pain
I feel like he chose her over me...I don't understand, my first love.
OK, so I dated this guy when I was 13 years old until about 18 on and off. I was his first love and he was mine. he cheated on me I broke up with him and got married to someone else in a very short time. no closure was...
parizlondon
Xper 4 Age: 43 How can I get over my strong feelings for my roommate who doesn't feel the same way?
For the past few months I have had strong feelings for one of my best friends. It started when he had just broken up with his girlfriend and he would send me messages saying he had been checking me out. Against my better...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I feel so worthless to everyone?
I feel down more than I ever have. This feelings has been here since I moved the summer before my freshman year in high school. I lost all my friends and meeting new people here is really tough. I was popular from where I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why won't I get over her?
She was very cruel when she dumped me. During my relationship lots of both my girl and guy mates didn't like her, they said she was controlling and hypocritical. The mates that did like her, since hearing how she behaved...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does my ex-girlfriend want me back?
She broke up with me and it was pretty rough. We had been going through a rough time that we weren't able to get through. Always arguing and fighting. It eventually became so much that she just broke up with me one...
bababooey
Xper 5 Age: 42 Constant problem keeping a girlfriend!
OK, this is something which has been a real pain in my ass over the last two years. I'll date a girl and it goes great... we connect well and we tell each other we love one another. And out of nowhere the girl will say...
Jonny_
Guru Age: 36 How do I forget the past?
I was in a long term relationship for years, well still am. Partner lied to me for months said they were not cheating.. Said person was just a friend. (found unused condoms in their car ) I did some window peeking...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Boyfriend of 1 year has disappeared again, after begging me back?
Hi I need some advise, this is long winded so I will try and cut it short meet this guy 3 years ago and he had a daughter, was with him 4 months and he would never stay over my house, I asked him why one night and he...
Anonymous
(36-45) Got my heart broken, with a new person now, wondering if this is normal
This girl and I broke up a couple months ago. We had been dating for four months at the time, and she was my first everything. She basically broke my heart for the first time, told me that even though we were completely...
tpdasd
Xper 5 Age: 43 Getting over someone is tough stuff! Any advice?
Idk I feel as though I'm getting over her... the emotional pain is nowhere near as bad as it was. I don't hurt throughout the day, its easier to focus on important things... I'm doing good, But sometimes I just still...
Anonymous
(30-35) What does my dream mean?!
it's pretty a lot,i wrote everything I remember! it was my birthday,i had all my friends and my mom and sister there but I the dream was kind of focused on my friends and they all looked..uncomfortable...or annoyed..not...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this guy just trying to have sex with me, or..?
I am about to get involved with a non-married but in a long-term relationship man. He initiated it – he had replied to an ad I posted about wanting other spouses of people with mental illness to kvetch with. He told me he...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I think it's over, but I need to hear it from others. Thanks.
Hi... So I've been "seeing" (I hate that term) a girl 24yo who works PT at a place I DJ and my flatmate manages. We saw a lot of each other for like 5/6 weeks and stayed over at each others' a fair bit (2/3 times...
BigBlueEyes
Xper 5 Age: 45 Why does the pain of getting over someone have to be so bittersweet?
It's like it makes you feel so down and depressed... but at the same time you kinda like it and it sorta feels good. I didn't ever dated the girl, so its not a break-up but I did fall in love with her... madly. Its been...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Heart Is Broken, How Do I Fall Out Of Love??
Email from a reader So, maybe, my question is, how can I turn off this love? How can I do it, if I loved him, flaws and all? He was sweet and generous with me when we were together and I only have good memories. I...
mikethemasterdater
Xper 6 Age: 53 How to get over someone?
I dated this girl for four years and it has finally come to an end. Towards the end she moved in and lived with me and it all came crashing down. Now that we have been apart for more than 2 weeks I am realizing what it...
SLR373
Xper 3 Age: 38 How long does it usually take to get over a break up that lasted 2 years?
It's been a month since I broke up with the guy I thought I was going to someday marry, and I'm still waking up in the middle of the night having thoughts of him, and being in tears. Like tonight for instance. I just...
mpwilke
Xper 6 Age: 38 Burning in my solitude
i know, I'm young. what do I know about pain? I should be out enjoying the day but... every time I move, someone is leaning over my shoulder, breathing down my neck. I'm always alone. when my family does something, I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why am I afraid of his rejection when he's the one who did me wrong?
I was with him for 2 years and he pulled the friend card on me, come to find out, he was leaving me for someone else. Needless to say I found out from somebody else. I cut off all contact with him, but 5 months later I...
Anonymous
(36-45) My boyfriend broke up with me and says he doesn't love me anymore or care about me as anything but a friend.
We had been together for 3 years and 8 months. This past summer he lost a lot of weight and started changing and becoming way different than he used to be. He started getting really friendly with a coworker which I asked...
Allidink
Xper 3 Age: 37 