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Please explain why. #Kids #FamilyPlanning #Family

1. How many children are too many, and why? Let's say it's a couple - e. g. a mom and a dad.
2. Is it wrong to have too many children, and why/why not?
3. Does the same thing apply to both biological and adoptive children?

My Opinion:
I thinks people should be allowed to decide how many children they wants to have, but I wouldn't recommend people having more than three children because of a child require a lot of energy, time, love and is expensive. A child also needs health insurance, college saving, space (big enough house), food, clothing, recreational activities etc. Healthy, able-bodied, well behaved and good economy aren't guaranteed for anyone.

If you're rich, you may afford having five children although it's higher than my general recommendation. But if you're poor, you may not be able to afford one child. Yet many poor people decides to have many like 5 - 10. I've even heard about people having 20 children.

Often the oldest siblings have to take care of the younger ones because of the parents doesn't always have enough time and capacity to take care of everyone. In addition the oldest siblings also often are expected to make money to the family, take care of their old parents etc. I think it's worse if you've many biological than adoptive ones, because of then you're putting people into the world without them asking to be born and if you fails as a parent it would do a bigger impact. If you adopts, it's someone else that may have get pregnant with an accident and therefor not your fault for their birth. It's better with a big family than none.
@JudgmentDay @Unit1

I have had a crush on this student dentist for almost a year now. It happened pretty quickly after she wouldn't shut up and started telling me every detail about her life and interests. She was adorable. She was also a nerdy blonde dentist. So naturally I couldn't help but have a crush on her.

Whenever she takes my blood pressure it goes through the roof when I am with her. Ever reading I have ever gotten without her shows my blood pressure as EXCELLENT. The last couple times I have gone to the dentist we have joked about it. She even jokingly said, "You know what I think it is? I think it's me. It's because I am so scary." I of course complimented her on this and gave her a high five. That created a laugh.

It got to be our second to last appointment and every message she sent me would be like "soooooo... this is almost our LAST appointment together and you are all done..." She was making a big deal of this on three different calls and it got me a bit frustrated about it and I asked her not to remind me that the last appointment was coming up.

She calls me today for our last appointment tomorrow. I spill my feelings. This is how the convo went. Keep in mind, she called me while she was at work and was likely standing there on the dental floor. I felt her conversation was rather cryptic and she was holding back what she wanted to say.

Her: Any other questions?
Me: Yes actually. For awhile I have had concerns about my high blood pressure at the dentist when you do the reading. I found out the reason why. It's because I have a crush on you. I hope that's not awkward.
Her: No. Not at all. How are you feeling now?
Me: Uhm. Good I guess. I just kept it to myself because I didn't want to make things awkward.
Her: Not at all. We can check it when you get here tomorrow.

I felt this strange sense that she was holding back in what she had to say because she was on the dental floor. What do you think she will say tomorrow? Does she like me?