Search Results: i like her but am hung up on ex girlfriend

Ok here's the scenario. You and your girl break up, and during that time you hang out with a female friend you've known since high school. (Girlfriends been the jealous type so you could never hang out with any female friends) anyways, so then you and your ex get back together. the female friend calls one day and says she may be sick again, as she used to have some sort of condition when you were growing up. Mind you, your girlfriend is in the room when you're talking to her. You then start talking about a webcamming site where you meet random people, and mention in front of your girl to your friend on the phone a moment when the two of you were webcamming and the female friend was sitting on her bed. After the phone call your girlfriend looks at you and asks what you meant by the bed comment. If anything was meant inappropriately to the female friend would you have said it while your girlfriend is in the room listening? P. S she's already been suspicious of the two of them. Also he asked her to get lunch in front of girlfriend

Some guy said he played me. I don't think so.

I'm a good girl and grew up homeschooled. I guess his bad side interested me. During the summer we hung out a ton. I used to say I wanted to drink and smoke weed with him but never did. I also was a sexual tease because of hormones, but I never had sex, masturbated or even kissed a guy.

Basically he hurt my feelings and liked hotter girls whod be more sexual with him. He's 19, dropped out of uni, travels , does drugs, etc.

I slowly came to my senses and stopped caring. His ex girlfriend thougyt she was better than me because she's blonde, blue eyed, a model and a recent saint.

I ended u graduating a year ahead of time to be a freshman like him. My hormones calmed down, I didn't care anymore and I feel amazing. I'm almost 19, a virgin, never masturbated, smart, etc. Fuck him. I'll be every guys dream wife when I hit 30. For now I'll travel, learn and keep living.

Names have been changed to protect identities :)
My future last name shall be Smith for the purpose of this question.

I was over at my fiance's parents' house. They had a few people over and we were having some after-dinner wine. I'm not a super huge drinker but an occasional glass of wine is whatever. Anyway, so we're all gathered around and they asked if I wanted to try the new bottle. They offered me a sip of the glass they'd just poured.

The glass was going to go to one of the other ladies (this lady happened to be my fiance's ex girlfriend). I asked her if it was okay if I took a sip out of her glass. Before she could answer, my future father in law said, ""Jane's" a part of the family. She's a "Smith." She knows how we work! It's fine!"

So this was hurtful for a few reasons.

1. "Jane" and my fiance "dated" for 7 months back when they were 12 (10 years ago).
2. "Jane" and my fiance haven't hung out together in years. She left their friend group (of her own accord) shortly after their little relationship of sorts ended.
3. I have been with my fiance for 7 years and we have been engaged for 2 years. Whenever anyone mentions me as being a part of their family, his parents immediately jump in and specify that I'm absolutely not a part of their family.

So... it's just irritating and hurtful that they'd refer to this girl as a part of the family but not me? I realize I should probably just brush it off but it still stings. Doesn't make me super excited to marry into their family, tbh. Love their son, but I don't feel welcomed. They treat me like a member of their family but if ever they need to tell people what I am to them they make it very clear that I am not. They only started mentioning me as more than their son's friend a couple months ago.

And before you ask, yes, my fiance argues on my behalf and yes, he sticks up for me and sides with me.