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If you know the TV show catfish, you'd understand a bit better maybe.

I met this girl online (playstation 3) 😂 as a online friend at first, then we used to message each other when we was both on, then I asked for her number, and we spoke more, then it was everyday after that.

We got close, told each others things and secrets to, we both agreed to not tell anyone about each other, so we was kinda had a secret online relationship (boyfriend and girlfriend kinda thing), even tho we never met, only saw pictures of each other and sometimes spoke over the phone with each other, but we both lived in the same country (UK), I lived in London, and she was from Newcastle, she was 4-5 years older as well.

We was together techniqually for 2 years and things could never of been better, she made me happy, and I felt loved for who I was etc, she felt the same (but had some trust issues because of a previous relationship she was in and her ex beat her up after she finished work one day), she sent pics of the marks and bruises on her body to me, and I was fucking angry, I wanted to kill to the guy.

A couple months on, we spoke/ talked less, she came kinda distance, she didn't reply to my messages or anything, so I got extremely worried, so I gave her number to my brothers girlfriend, and ask her to message her for me and find out if she's OK and tell her I need to talk.

So she messaged my girlfriend, but said some complete bullshit, so when she finally replied, she was pissed off that I gave her number to my brothers girlfriend at the time, she told me I shouldn't of done that, and we had a fall out with each other, and without her saying it's over, she left without saying anything, I felt so broken I cried.

I only recently got back in contact with her again, but she barely even replies to me, but when she left me, we didn't talk for over 6 months, but I still had very strong feelings for her and still loved her and asked if she'd give me another chance and get back together.

Two months ago my girlfriend admitted to me she was having sex with another guy. She was crying and said she loves me, and it was only because she wanted to experience what another guy was like. The thing is that my girlfriend never uses birth control. We already have a kid together.

When came clean, she also told me she was pregnant. She said it could be mine or the other guy's, she didn't know. I said might stay with her or I might not, I figure everything out with time. She said showed me a picture of the guy she was cheating with because I told her if she was cheating with a Black guy then I was done with her. It was a white guy so I at least have some respect left for her.

I had her go for a paternity test and today it came back that the other guy is the father. So she was crying again and begging me not to breakup with her. Back when my girlfriend came clean, she promised her cheating had already ended because she felt really guilty and it was only for a month. She said she really regrets it, regrets hurting me, and promises she would never do it again. I was her first guy and she was my first girl. I have never been with any girls besides her but now she's been with another guy.

My girl best friend already told me that she is willing to have sex with me and she likes me enough that she also have a kid with me. She said she knows how hurt I am and she will help me get even because she loves me and wants me to feel better. So I could cheat on my girlfriend to get even and have a kid with another girl.

What choice do you think I should make? I really am thinking of staying with my girlfriend, but cheating to get even and having a kid with my girl best friend. I want my girlfriend to know how it feels to be cheated on and be hurt, just like she did to me.