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I like this guy well enough, but I feel like there's not much chemistry outside of in bed. After the first three or four dates, conversation has been scarce. It's hard to really talk to him. We've been dating for a couple months, and there's pleasantries and small talk, but he's so quiet and I feel like it's always up to me to keep things from getting awkward. It's like pulling teeth sometimes.

We'll do fun things, bowling, ice skating, chilling at a bar playing pool, hiking, and yet I hate to say it, but he's not very playful, exciting, or fun. Very little sense of humor, he's almost always serious. He leaves most things up to me to decide. It's like there's not much emotion in him, or he doesn't care, I don't know.

He did ask about us though, which surprised me. I thought for a while it wasn't going anywhere. He wants to get more serious though, as in be a couple. Given all of this though, I don't know if we'd be good together. Should I give it a chance anyway? Maybe we'll figure it out and he'll open up more later? I just want a connection and it's not there right now, and I'm worried it won't ever be.

The pluses are he's a good guy, really attractive, the sex is good, he's a gentleman, he listens, and he does make time for me.