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So I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years
Im his longest relationship and he's mine too
After 1 year of dating, he introduced me to his parents
And then recently, he introduced me to his other relatives (uncles, aunties, cousins, grandparents)
Im the first girl out of all his ex girlfriends to meet all his family
He has warned me about how toxic his family are.. they talk shit about everyone behind their back
Im a shy and quiet girl
But they all acted nice towards me

So anyway, today my boyfriend told me that his aunty told him that his mum has been talking shit about her, about him and about me as well
He told me that his mum thinks im a gold digger and im using him for his money
I got offended by this
And my boyfriend said this:
"Look dont worry about my mum, i already told u she would talk shit, she's like that, all the family knows she's messed up, i dont care what she says anyway, and my aunty tried to defend u by saying ur a nice girl and i told my aunty that u had a better job than me so you're not using me for money"

Hearing that his mum talking crap about me hurts...
Im pretty sure she said more nasty things about me
I've always wanted a family oriented man
Because i love my family

Should i dump my boyfriend because of this?

I am feeling really iffy about him at this point.

We’ve only known each other for 1.5 months and on the 3rd date, he decided to make things official. It was way to fast but he asked me to be his girlfriend and official. Right off the batch, he wasn’t sure about the relationship because he doesn’t know me well enough. But then why he wanted to make it exclusive? And he asked me to his girlfriend. We talked it out, i asked to back out and just keep hanging out... he basically disagree wants to keep this as girlfriend boyfriend. So here we are... I feel like he threw me into being his girlfriend and then now, he’s the one unsure and acting weird.

He is not really treating this like a committed relationship. I feel more like we’re just dating and seeing each other once a week. Our communication is 99.9% through text. At this point, he only told a few friends he has a girlfriend. I have not met any of his friends. He don’t want me to meet them yet.

Since last-night 12:30am he has not been on whatsapp at all. He has not touch his phone since? We are meeting up tonight though. I have no clue what he’s doing and at this point, no trust is gain. He most of the time would send me a goodnight message but recently, when he’s out with his friends... he sometimes doesn’t and disappear until the next day. Last Sunday, we didn’t talk at all. He just went MIA until Monday.

Should I just dump him and find someone else? Is this shady? I am so confused!