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For example, when you’re using the toilet, do you keep the door locked/shut? Or do you have no problem using the toilet while your partner is in the room with you?

Are you tempted to make yourself look better in the morning before your partner wakes up? Or do you not care if your partner sees you at your ‘worst’?

Are you more inclined to try to make yourself look prepped-up (whatever that is according to YOUR standards/style) before a date? Or are you more inclined to go looking relaxed/casual?

Do you avoid farting in the presence of your partner? Or do you not care?

Do you watch your language and try to speak in a way that impresses your partner? Or are you more impulsive in what you say and how you say it?

Do you and your partner give each other alone time (even if only by habit)? Or, for example, can each of you walk into whatever room, such as a home office, where the other person might be at pretty much any time without notice?

Do you never/rarely access each other’s emails, phones, social networks etc (whether out of curiosity, boredom or jealousy)? Or do you do that often?

Do you avoid talking about or showing your minor/disgusting health problems, like a cold? Or are you open about it, e.g. not caring about sneezing loudly and messily?

Does sex often require preparation (e.g. putting on make-up or washing yourself)? Or are you often happy to have it at a moment’s notice?

Do you still have formalized together-time (if you ever did), such as date nights? Or do you merely incorporate togetherness whenever you can into your lives (such as spontaneous cuddling on the sofa)?

Do you know little/nothing about your partner’s exes? Or do you know quite a lot?

Do you use polite words of appreciation, such as ‘please’ and ‘thank you’? Or have those mostly been replaced by affectionate words of appreciation, such as ‘Baby, you’re so thoughtful’?

Is there a lot of coy/unspoken flirting? Or is much of the flirting vocalized and direct?

Do you tend to call your partner by their name? Or by terms of affections, such ‘Honey’, ‘Baby’?

Are you concerned with keeping fit and attractive? Or do you let yourself go a little?

Are you at least a little unfamiliar with your partner’s friends? Or do you consider them your friends too (in addition to your own friends)?

Are you at least a little unfamiliar with your partner’s family? Or do you consider them to be your family too (in addition to your own family)?

When talking to someone else, do you tend to refer to your partner as ‘my partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband/etc’? Or do you tend to refer to them by their name?

I’m sure there are many other examples.

I’m definitely more of a private/mysterious person. I think that keeps a relationship both sexy and respectful in a way, if that doesn’t sound like a contradiction. I don’t think any relationship is completely to one extreme or the other, but I do think that leaning towards the more mysterious/private end works better for me.