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Me and my boyfriend (of nearly 2 years) was talking on the phone today
Its few days till his birthday
I planned a birthday dinner for him and invited my friends to celebrate his birthday
He doesn't have much friends so I invited my friends
But I've introduced them before and they all met my boyfriend plenty of times now so technically theyre his friends too.. I guess
And I already ordered a cake for him
Anyways, this was our conversation:

Me - you know for this Saturday, did you want me to come to your place early? Around lunch time?
Him - yeah come lunch time. Its ages away, why we talking about it?
Me - its 3 days away and coz im organizing something
Him - oh no. Dont make it a big deal please. I hope you didn't get me a cake or anything
Me - why?
Him - because people would be looking at me. Its embarassing
Me - well I like planning things
Him - ok well just dont make it a big deal. Like im not happy
Me - why aren't u happy? Its your birthday
Him - its because im getting old.. im 28.
Me - ummm.. ok?
Him - anyways ill talk to u later yeah
Me - alrite bye
Then we hanged up

Whats his problem?
Why is he so miserable?
Its making me miserable and upset
Im trying my best to make him feel not alone on his birthday
He told me he doesn't want to be alone his birthday
But from the conversation it feels like he doesn't want to celebrate his birthday
Im so upset
I feel like I shouldn't have invited my friends and just left him alone for his birthday
Am i right to be upset about this?

He was my boyfriend in 2009 but he rejected me to marry because I Have a slight problem in walking. He got married in 2012. We talk on phone call once a year
He invited me for a movie in April 2018 after 8 years. I agreed and we met at theatre but all the time he was holding hands touching me..
He bluntly asked me If I would go to room with him. I declined and said m not interested and asked him are u unsatisfied with your married life. He got angry and left the movie. He called me and said u are doubting my married life. Now i will not meet u anywhere except hotel room.
I am confused why is he behaving like this?
Did I say anything wrong by asking about his married life unsatisfied that he got so angry?

My boyfriend and I had split for a month. During that time he hung out with a female friend he'd known since 2009 but hasn't seen in years. They had never had a thing apparently, and I had never met her. when we got back together I learned she had been very flirty with him but he had never reacted to it.. so one day she calls him and tells him she thinks she has a medical issue going on, and has a history of being sick. Then he brings up a webcamming site that I guess they had gone on when they hung out one of the times its, where you talk to random people and so then he says something to her Like "remember when you were in bed blah blah" and keep in mind I'm in the room and he knows I'm hearing this) then he says he's there for her and that they should grab lunch.

When he's done on the phone, I'm like wtf? you were on her bed? And he says no, I wasn't we were in the living room. Then I'm like ok then why mention her bed.. and he says that when she used to be really sick she'd just be in bed talking online to people but my thing is, if he wasn't in her room then why mention it at all? Unless mahbe she told him about the webcam site when they hung out and mentioned she did it a lot when she was sick so that was how he got her to remember what he was talking about? I don't know its late and I'm freaking out. Basically if you were him, and your girlfriend has already accused u of sleeping with this girl ur on the phone with, would u mention anything inappropriate? We had just gotten back together and he so casually said it to her