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Parent - Someone in Parent may use body language that is angry or impatient such as finger-pointing, fist-clenching, "in your face". The language of the Parent may be judgmental, critical or patronizing.

Adult - You can tell that someone is in their Adult when they are showing interest and pay attention, they are not defensive or need the be threatening in any way. A conversation with someone in Adult is reasonable, straight-forward and oriented towards solving problems. They tend to ask for information before forming opinions, such as asking "why", "what", "how", "who", "where" and "when". Individuals working from Adult use logic statements - true, false, probably, possibly. They don't force their opinions on you as if talking to a child but will offer their own thoughts in a non-dogmatic way: "I think", "I realize", "I see", "I believe".

Child - An individual who is in their Child often behaves more emotionally than they do at other times, which could be sad, angry, despairing, fearful, depressed. They may use the body language of a child, such as squirming, giggling, whining, shrugging, teasing. There are many phrases that point to the Child being present, the person tends to use simple language such as "I want", "I need", "I don't care", "don’t know".

Remember: when you are trying to identify ego states words are only part of the overall message.

55% is body language
38% of meaning is intonation
Only 7% of communication is the actual words spoken

I started at a new location at the the beginning of the year and almost instantly I hit it off with a beautiful woman who worked with me. We even spent Superbowl Sunday together, at work, but she came and hung out in my area the whole night and we talked a lot even about relatively personal things.
In the following months she would act differently around me, and she'd talk about me to her best friend at work but she was still nice and her body language indicated she was interested, and I'd share my lunch when she didn't have anything.

I felt like we openly flirted a lot but one day she was telling me about her day at lunch and mentioned she had a boyfriend. I immediately stopped flirting with her, and she wouldn't even say anything to me during some shifts.

I basically began to not speak unless spoken to, and she would just give me these very odd looks but we had one conversation like we used to but she mentioned her boyfriend again.

So anywho, over the past month, I didn't speak to her almost at all, and she just got back from a two week vacation, and I was talking to some guys about my back surgery from 4 years ago and she interjected, and she was joining in the conversation a lot.
We were all talking about the turnover and how we didn't remember anyone's name, and I asked her if she knew mine, and she said she couldn't remember it.

I called her the wrong name as a joke as I left but I feel like I misinterpreted everything. Did I?