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My best friend and his crush approached to offer me a community where we, indeed, enjoyed spending each other after my horrible break up. After months, turned out she had a deep crush on me since middle school. Her deep passion was like a sweet assuaging candy to my heart, which was as cold as ice still trying to cover up the wounds that my break up left to my heart.

Days and days I still can hear her echo, soothing her baby sister from the third floor of her house like a cup of warm milk mixed with her honey at the middle of cold night, but as her hand approached to mine, I could never forget the face, the face of a tortured heart engraved on my friend's face. I knew this guy since elementary school. We weren't close, but we did the moment. He was not a good looking man.

She was not a good looking girl.

However, they both have the warmest smiles you have ever seen. The smile of a soothing warm, happy sunlight in your cold days. And the smile of of a sad, cool rain in your hot days.

I still indeed was astray from my break up. I did not love her, and as brocodes, one bro shall never date another bro's love. And I made that clear, very clear. Clear enough to hear her crying as I walked away. Clear enough to wear her ring given to me as my necklace, a symbol of a delayed love.

You know... we always rode bicycle back to school. To be honest, those were my good old days. I have never forgot their faces when saying good bye to me.

A face of an endured bucket of tears. And the face of hopelessness in easing the love of his life. As the train parted, my heart did not even ache, but their faces... forever have haunted me.

May I ask what your story is?

I got a text from a friend the other day asking me if I'd go to with her to the grocery store to pick some things up. And when I asked why, because she was "wasn't in the mood to deal with a bunch of catcalls" and having a man with you apparently prevents this 100%.

And it honestly kind of floored me a little. I asked for clarification, and she told me that every time she needs to go out and get something, she gets catcalled in parking lots, or guys approach her and try to hit on her, and "It's like, I'm just trying to go about my day and get stuff done. I don't want to deal with having to reject a bunch of random guys."

Apparently this happens all the time, and it happens regardless of how she's dressed. She says that she often goes out in baggy sweats, an old T-shirt and messy hair with no makeup, specifically to try to discourage guys from approaching, but they do it anyway.

As a guy, I'm pretty sure I've approached women in random places before, but it's rare. If I'm out and about, it's usually because ~I~ need to get something done, and the last thing on my mind is trying to scope out women to hit on.

I think most of the time, when I approach a woman, it's hasn't been a cold approach. I've usually already been introduced, or we've met through some sort of mutual event or ~something~ where we've had the opportunity to engage in conversation. I've never been a player of the "numbers game".

Anyway, I think she's fairly attractive in general, but I certainly wouldn't call her stunning, and especially not when she's dressed down with no makeup.

And because I'm pretty sure someone's going to bring this up, she does have a boyfriend that she's really, really into, so she's definitely not just trying to make some excuse to hang out with me for that. We just happened to share the same day off.