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I went on Tinder, matched with a guy I had a huge crush on in high school. He gave me his number and we text. He's 28 now and I'm 24. We were in band but he never noticed me or so I thought...
Last night I went over to his house for the first time to hang out. We talked a lot, like if we knew each other really well! I met his roommate and his best friend!

Here is what I thought was weird:
1. He remembered me from High School (I didn't think he noticed me in band). He remembered what instrument I played and what section I was in.
2. We cuddled but he spooned me on his couch (when we had privacy.) Like he didn't want to let go.
3. His palms were sweaty, he was having anxiety (he told me) and was super nervous just by sitting next to me.
4. I pointed out a guy that was attractive in a show we were watching. He was criticizing on how the guy looked as if he was jealous! He kept saying "His nose is too big! Mine is smaller! I have more facial hair than he does! I'm more tan than he is!!"
5. We had sex but he swore he didn't plan it. Which he kept talking throughout the whole time. 🙄 He was nervous during sex, even though he claims to have been with 8 girls before me.

What is this Guy's deal? I can't pin point it.

You're on the couch or cuddling in bed together watching a movie and then you notice he/she fell asleep on you.

Would you get annoyed?

Like they hug you constantly and grab you even from behind. They grab both your hands and hold them. They get right in your face with their face or stick their feet in your face. Girls that grab your head and put it in their boobs. They want to cuddle and sleep in bed together.

My friends in question were drunk (I was not) and I have known them since childhood. After not seeing them for a long time I felt very uncomfortable when they acted like this. I’m curious how other women feel about that type of close-friendship and physical touch. I have had a lot of female friends act this way with me, even one’s with boyfriends. They seem to have nothing but good intentions, and I play along with it but often end up feeling a little violated or disrespected. It seems like they think that’s how to express love with friends, but I feel like I want to reserve that type of touch/closeness for the person I’m in a romantic relationship with only.

I am setting boundaries and working on speaking up when I feel uncomfortable. I feel like my friends would like me more if I was more touchy-feeley but somehow it always feels too sexual to me. I sometimes worry that my girlfriends are into me in a romantic/sexual way. Thoughts?

So this girl about 9 years younger than me went psycho on me on Christmas day in a jealous rage. She says she's straight. I told her I'm bisexual but we lived as a couple for a few weeks with her sharing my bed, cuddling me, holding my hands and air kissing me (not actual kissing). Yeah, I know. Weird for someone 100% straight and religious.

Anyway, we parted ways last week as I'm starting a new job and she did everything in her power to make sure she wasn't around for the last 10 days when the workload decreased. Would spend 90% of the time outside the office, go home early, show no interest in hanging out before I left etc.

The fight was basically a jealous rage because I invited some friends over for drinks and she wanted us to spend the remainder of Christmas eve alone together and since then, she would look for attention from me in the office. Not understanding why I wasn't giving in to her and remaining diplomatic until one day I pulled her aside and said we need to talk about the issue. We went for dinner that night and from the following day she was back to being cold etc.

She is Chinese. I am English speaking. Why is she suddenly posting a whole lot of stuff about resting, taking it easy and coping through darkness, in MY mother tongue and so that I am probably the only one who can see it seen as none of our mutual friends liked the posts?