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My older sister and her friend scammed me out of almost a grand this summer. I forgave my sister, because she is blood, but her friend gets no forgiveness. I found out she is inviting this friend to our family Christmas dinner party and I don't want to be there if she is going. Is this a good reason to skip it? I just don't know how I am going to break bread with a girl who got me for almost a thousand.

Do you hold grudges? Are they secret grudges? Are they known to those your grudging against?

Or are you on the opposite side of the spectrum, and have no problem with forgiveness?

This guy in my class knows that I like him but he acts like he doesn't know around me. One of my guy friend told me that my crush tells his friends "she (me) wants my D! He sounded like he's bragging about me having a crush on him. Anyways, he would ask random qs like "oh, who do you like?" Or "do you want me to hook you up with this guy?" but obviously he already knows I like him already. He flirts with me a lot and compliments me. But he didn't make a move or ask me for my number. He sometimes would also ask/tell me sexual jokes/things.. But I've realized that he flirts with other girls too (without the sexual part though). He kept giving me mixed signals... One time, I got mad at him and he tried so hard to ask for forgiveness and kept coming to my locker trying to apologize. But once I forgave him, he doesn't even come to my locker anymore but still flirts me in class.. I think he's just playing with my feelings.. I'm not sure

How is your relationship with your ex?
Civil or no?

I was laying in bed this morning and realized that I have no relationship where there is bad blood between me and my now ex (s). From being cheated on, to one ex getting another girl pregnant, to walking away from proposals and being stolen from... I have forgiven and moved past all hiccups. All of me and my ex boyfriends are on good terms. We may not talk everyday but we respect and understand each other. Forgiveness is crazy hard.

When i was 14 years old i got pregnant to guy who was 4 years older than me who was my first love and i didn't tell my parents about it, but my father find out that and he keep me at the house because i didn't tell him who is the father. I couldn't tell him because my ex boyfriend say "don't mention my name even if someone finds out" and i did but my father was very closed minded and he felt shame because of me and he keep me very far with my aunt from everyone until i birth and he took my baby and i didn't see him/her again. i kept asking him about that and i want know anything about my baby but he didn't tell me anything, i forget that and i continue studying at the school and i met a guy then we got married after we finished college and we were happy and after a year he start talking about starting a family and having kids but i wasn't interested at all because i remembered what happened at the first time. I told him that i can't have kids and he kept asking questions but i couldn't answer and he divorced me because i was keeping things from him and now he wants me back after 3 years! I'm confused.
Please tell me that if i should forgive my father because he came to my house asking for forgiveness and i refused to talk to him so should i forgive him and keep asking him about my baby one more time or stop thinking about my baby and hate my father for what he did to me and back to my husband and be honest with him this time?
At least answer one of my questions i really need your answer to cheer me up and give me a hope in life again.