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I was in a class today and I was in a mood. I usually don't tell people I'm in a mood because it almost never happens. Today my mood was coming from being hurt. My best friend had totally ignored me and attempted to tear me down emotionally which I guess she did because I was heartbroken to loose a friend. She was a jerk to me and then decided to slowly take my best guy friend from me. i was hurt and emotionally broken for a while because they would exclude me and talk poorly about me. Today the guy made a joke that was immature and not even the slightest bit funny, boarderline derogatory. Earlier he had totally blown me off and I was mad because he thought he could just come to me whenever he needed me and totally act like I was invisible the rest of the time. So when he made the joke, I said a sarcastic reply that could be considered teasing or turning his own joke on him. He looked at me like he couldn't believe his "friend" would make a remark and he told me "don't be mean (my name)" which had me smile and tell him I wasn't but turn away and roll my eyes because I knew he would forget I existed until the next joke he says or support he may need. I didn't like being used like that and after the hurt I went through when they rudely distanced themselves from me, i subconsciously determined it was okay to be snarky which is not like my usual self at all. I'm usually sarcastic and teasing, but not sassy snarky. Was I wrong to give him a snarky sarcastic reply? It was a little harsh but I was feeling hurt from being ignored and laughed at.

Do I have a chance?

Ok so, I have been into this grl foir a while, a few months. I was getting mixed signals, she keeps hanging out but won't talk or shell ask me out but she doesn't act like she's interested when we hang out.. For a while I thought maybe she is shy. But then how can shge ask me out. So I got tired of it, and i finally asked her 'what he wanted from me.' She said :

"Don't ask me that. I don't want you to do what you think i want, I want you to do what you want, and let me DECIDE if what you want is something I want, and or can be compatible with. If you are acting just to get something, then we will never know if we would work together.. Stop treating me like I am playing games, just because I want you to be honest in what you say and what you do--To be who who you really are insterad of trying to figure me out and control everything. "

Guys im really confused. I did not think i was doing all of this, but maybe i was / am. Is she saying she might actually want something? Am i reading that wrong? I can not tell if she is rejecting me, or saying she is considering me. What do you think?

I would appreciate advice.
I am just thinking what the hell is up.
Do I have a chance, What is she asking?
Is it a cofde for something, do you think its a game?
Is she toying with me, or is it possible I have not been clear?
Is this a normal way for her to talk?
What was I supposed to say?
Did i mess up my chances being quiet.
I know i paused too long, but it was out of no where.

I know I seem inexperienced but I have had gfs.. I just do not understand her. She is just different. But I do like her. But I feel so dumb around her sometimes. We are not even having sex. Not to be a jerk but its been months and we are not dating or having sex, so I just dont understand and I feel like she is blaming me... Is it my fault? This is like a headace that will not leave. Not her, just this.