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Ok so I dated my ex-girlfriend for about 3 years. She broke up with my at the end of February of 2014 because she said I was neglectful and didn't treat her as well as she wanted. She resented me for it. I was always loving of her, I just didn't show it enough. I realized I wasn't doing things for her and with her the way most couples did. The truth is, she was right. It was my first real relationship with anyone and we were long distance for a bit of time (with school), I was just inexperienced. After we broke up I Was destroyed. She kept calling me and seeing me nearly everyday and since I Wanted her back I was ok with it. When we were hanging out, I made sure to show her things would be different between us. This went on for about 6-7 months. Until she started dating another guy. I could not handle that at all and did so poorly. I got really clingy and jealous (two things I never was before, she knows that). This turned her off to me completely and after a big fight (about the guy she was talking to) she told me she didn't see me the same way anymore and that I had become clingy etc. After a week she started calling because she missed me, but only as a friend she said. We kept talking for a little bit, but I couldn't handle her seeing another guy. She has always been mine and I love her too much. I made it clear that I loved her and wanted to be with her and I told her to give me a call if things didn't work out between her and the other guy, and if she was interested in giving me a real chance, but that I couldn't settle for friendship. A month later she started calling me out of the blue and we make small talk for like 30 minutes or so. Then the other day, she said she wanted to meet for coffee but she doesn't want me thinking we're talking again. I said she knows what I want, that my clinginess is gone and over with, and that I want her to have fun with me again. I said its up to her.