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I know Most wouldn't want to walk around on eggshells, but I feel more interracial relationships would be successful if people would just think before they speak. But I for example, say the N word a lot and have to speak carefully when with someone who isn't black, because yes i’d look at them sideways if they repeated the word back. I hate my first ex ever got me into the bad habit of saying that word because my fam is against it. Anyways, I also dont like when nonblack guys constantly bring up my skintone and compare it chocolate. I’m all caramel baby 🙌 lmao but either way just try not to bring up skintone so much. I admit tho, i like when nonblack guys have a really good tan from the sun so I have to speak carefully and not compliment them so much on it 😂 Either way, i do prefer to date within my race or someone mixed with black just because of the things that i’m afraid someone nonblack will actually say... but then again this has never stopped me from still giving interracial relationships a try. #FeelFreeToList #InterracialDating

Yes. I mean come one we’ve all been on Twitter and instagram and social media in general. We also all live on earth while you may not have personally seen/experienced it doesn’t mean it’s not the truth. Black woman, more specifically dark skinned woman are treated poorly and seen as either too masculine or too “ghetto”. Yikes. I mean come on what’s with this generalization? 🤦🏾‍♀️ In all honesty in young, 13 , and I’ve seen this but I’ve seen it, black woman being compared to dogs and gorillas and even on Twitter there’s a whole hashtag called #ruinablackgirlsmonday which was made by a black man !! I don’t have much hope for finding anyone who will truly be food to me on the future bc I live in a white washed town and go to a white washed town where you either date a biracial girl or nothing else black. It’s a sad realization and I don’t think I’ve ever been THIS insecure before but I am ! It sucks and so many people try to devalue our experiences and say we’re just angry, I’m not angry I’m freaking sad. I’m so sad bc I can’t even live without being a butt of the joke or feeling like my skin tone and my hair must be ugly in some ways shape or form. Sometimes I want to just bleach my skin sometimes I want to wear some type 3 hair and be treated like I’m worth something. But the truth is that that’s not true and let’s be real it won’t ever get better bc that’s just the way the worlds conditioned.

anyways say whatever you feel is necessary to add input on and before the comments come rolling in about you’re victimizing yourself don’t I’m insecure odds are you’re insecure about something too, everyone is a victim of something but me sharing my experiences and what I see worldwide, this so the conclusion I’ve come to. And by all means necessary feel free to vote on the hat you feel...