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Do you speak carefully when entering an interracial relationship or do the things you say not really cross your mind?

DizzyDesii
I know Most wouldn't want to walk around on eggshells, but I feel more interracial relationships would be successful if people would just think before they speak. But I for example, say the N word a lot and have to speak carefully when with someone who isn't black, because yes i’d look at them sideways if they repeated the word back. I hate my first ex ever got me into the bad habit of saying that word because my fam is against it. Anyways, I also dont like when nonblack guys constantly bring up my skintone and compare it chocolate. I’m all caramel baby 🙌 lmao but either way just try not to bring up skintone so much. I admit tho, i like when nonblack guys have a really good tan from the sun so I have to speak carefully and not compliment them so much on it 😂 Either way, i do prefer to date within my race or someone mixed with black just because of the things that i’m afraid someone nonblack will actually say... but then again this has never stopped me from still giving interracial relationships a try. #FeelFreeToList #InterracialDating
Do you speak carefully when entering an interracial relationship or do the things you say not really cross your mind?
Do you speak carefully when entering an interracial relationship or do the things you say not really cross your mind?
I would partake in interracial dating and yes I would speak carefully
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Do you speak carefully when entering an interracial relationship or do the things you say not really cross your mind?
I would partake in interracial dating but no I would not filter myself
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Do you speak carefully when entering an interracial relationship or do the things you say not really cross your mind?
I would not partake in interracial dating but I do filter myself
Vote C
Do you speak carefully when entering an interracial relationship or do the things you say not really cross your mind?
I would not partake in interracial dating and I dont filter my words around other ethnicities
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For those who clearly dont realize, the N word im referring to is the one that ends in A that is used in rap songs. Of course im not gonna end it with an ER like a fucking racist. And i also said i control myself from saying the word around those who i dont feel should say it back. Some of you should read the whole damn paragraph and stop fucking assuuuuming
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Also, when i say THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK, im not saying you can't be yourself. Im asking wtf you gotta be rude af? Why dont you see what could be wrong with the shit you say? Just take into consideration that it may be offensive and DEFINITELY try to focus on your delivery. If i said “i hate your outfit” then thats rude af. If i said “this dress would suit you better” then do you see how i switched up my delivery! Gah lee!!
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