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Do you speak carefully when entering an interracial relationship or do the things you say not really cross your mind? (Page 2)
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Am always going to keep it real. I can't lose my originality. Am black and have never dated any white girl. But am open to it.
But people need to realize there's a difference in keeping it real and being rude
Exactly... There's a big difference. ✌🏻
I speak my mind. I’m not going to bite my tongue for anyone.
I would speak more formal but when we get to know each other enough/get close enough then I would fully talk regular.
It depends on the person. But I think it's safe to wait a bit to see how they feel about it
At least for me being a white guy :)
i have never been in a interracial relationship before i would be in one if i met the right girl i would speak carefully i would not want to upset them
why not open your legs and i will show you how i speak with my tongue👅
I am probably more conscious of it but don't change as have respect in first place, i also often was in a trace with the way body felt when close
Ahh i see
Why would I filter myself? Im not telling another person what to say or not. Conversations would too prude if you had to do it all the time. Just dont use the meanest or most offensive words.
#Freeapeech
Nope I do not at all I speak just as I would with anyone else.
Um I don't know if you're finding yourself walking on eggshells when it comes to talking to your partner, that's not good.
I don't date outside my race I see it as a destructive practice that is destroying races of humans that have existed for thousands of years.
Well, I never had to be careful, since the things I said weren't "questionable"...
Yea i dont think you ever said anything crazy
Oh good!!
No, you get into relationships because you don’t have to watch your step around them. That’s the whole point. Couples should feel comfortable being themselves.
We should be sensitive to certain stuff but all and all we should start thinking like human beings and treat each other as human beings
I agree
I try to speak carefully but sometimes I do fuck up ( sometimes I does not cross sometimes I m not able to put the things Into words)
Well im sure someone will be there to correct you
I d be glad if u were ready to correct me
by the way did u find any valentine?
No lol
I generally don't say racist things. So I wouldn't need a filter.
Never had one but I'd probably slip up if she was saying something all the time like that, slipped up around my black friend one time but he was very cool about everything
Sayingg something all the time like what
Like what you was talking about
I'm glad in my country racism isn't an issue. I only need to be careful when travelling abroad.
True
Still some areas in The States are okay to go to as a foreigner. Or come over here to Germany. :-) If you want to know what happens when racists attack a foreigner, search for #GiannieLee and her "slit-eye attack" done by a German and the big response from many Internet communities like #Gronkh and many more.
To make it short, Gronkh asked his 16k community on #Twitch to "spam" hearts in her chat channel. 2 raids, one uncoordinated and +400 people large, one full-scale and I was with the 2nd raid.
I wouldn't filter my words cause I would not say it with intention to hurt and bae would know that.
But would you be surprised if she coreected you on it
Well no, I would accept her correcting me coz I may be saying it as a joke but others (including her) may not find it funny. So yeah, she corrects me, I apologize, life goes on...
I try speak carefully like I do with every relationship
Thats the smart thing to do
I am not afraid and usually say what I think because my Intention is not to harm any. So my black and Asian friends are the one who bring race all time , so i Go for it
A true relationship wouldn't look at the color.. . and if it still deals with color then maybe it's not the relationship
I agree
I've dated interracial since twelve and well versused in what is taboo
Some societies sees it as taboo to date outside their own race, very bad to see this. Or you mean something else?
what is permissible to say and how to act when with someone from another racial heritage. unaware of racial swirling taboos
Are you single now? Did your family oppose you dating interracially?
@Gaming_dragon Mine tried to but failed in all directions. :-) I'm for exotic woman for sure!
we lived in a primarily black location and my dad was an old filipino with a much younger swedish second wife so was never an issue
So your preference is mostly black men? Just asking
absolutely true but not a limitation to others. all my boyfriend till 17 were black or latino
my current favorite boyfriend is black
my ex husband was black also
So where you live do affect people's attraction huh?
I mean determine
What happened in your first marriage if you don't mind me asking?
I'm not into black or Asian girls and have the most wonderful girlfriend by my side, so no.
I give other races options but primarily I seek my own race.
Same
There is only Black, White or Asian. There are only three races.
@Sarahr123 If you see it that simplified, maybe. Sure there are cultural differences between white people, like German / Russian, South-East Asian / Oriental / Russian (North Asia).
@Sarahr123 Caribbean / African.
@roland77 yeah of course. I mean there are cultural differences between Indians, the Mongolian people and also Arabs. Indians are very diverse and the Aryans have Caucasoid skulls like a lot of Arabs whereas some Indians have Mongoloid and Africoid skulls - but that’s a different matter. I guess what you would be referring to is ethnic/cultural differences. These differences exist even within some heterogeneous countries like India where there are many different ethnic groups but it’s all different flavours of Indian culture, Indian languages and Indian cuisine. They all have different food, different languages, different traditions with each state. Sometimes people don’t like to have inter cultural marriages because of that culture clash and language difference. I think most people have a sense pf familiarity with their own and look at their own more. I have always found myself drawn more to men who are of my own race. I suppose there should be a question on inter-cultural relations too. Also being with someone who looks more like me would save me the odd stares of bitchy public.
@Sarahr123 Very true. :-)
I'll never have to worry about that. Ladies as a whole don't like me.
I don't say anything that I would have to think about whether or not to say in the first place...
I'm currently in an interracial relationship and never thought of that. Actually, he's the one that jokes with the N word or with his skin colour.
Which one of you are black
My boyfriend is black, I'm white.
I support interracial relationships. I speak carefully before entering one.
Okay good
I'm half black and half white the best of both worlds.
Haha right
That's right! Lol
I can't filter myself around a partner. But since I'm not a racist I wouldn't need to.
U kidding? I always tell them that I love chocolate
omg are you stupid people still living in the 1800s?
I'm not American so I don't care about this stuff... Unless you have in irritating accent.
I don’t really think about it because I see people not color
Yeah right every person who says that is a hypocrite at least from my experience
You must have very limited experience or social circle. The way I see it is there are nasty, trashy, low life people of all races. I pay attention to a person persona and how they carry themselves, not their race. We all look the same once the skin is removed don’t we?
Never did interracial.
Nope unless asked to than i might
That makes sense
I am always myself. Lol.
Mud sharks gonna Mud.
Everything I say comes straight from my heart
Well you have to be careful
I spaeak vevy carelully 👍
No I speak my mind.
Why have a filter?
Because its respectful
Maybe, yeah. But why not just stay with your own?
I think a lot of people get easily hurt by things you could generalise a whole group of. And it shouldn't hurt as if it's specific to that one person.
Also, the 'N word' is seriously stupid. I don't get why blacks find that offensive.
The only time it should be offensive, is if it's said in a negative manner.
If I say; "You're a cook". It doesn't say much, except for what you work as.
But if I say; "You're stupid and awful cook!". It's obviously meant to hurt...
You're a*
Honestly when i correct most nonblack people on using the N word, im doing it in a nice way to save them from the wrath of people who won't take it so nicely. But yea i rather they just not... and i do prefer to date my own BUT im willing to date a nonblack person who is good at overlooking our racial differences. Sadly I've yet to only met like 2 guys who actually could
That's not really "sadly". More like "understandably".
No its sadly cause it should be more
There shouldn't be any, if you ask me. But then again, I'm just a 'racist' or whatever.
you're calling yourself that or maybe others are... I don't know i dont know u and haven't seen anything racist youve said. But im also not trying to find out.
That's interesting 🤔
The "er" ending isn't 'racist'
That shit is racist and i dont have anything else to say regarding it. I stand by what i said and you can go over there and stand by what people assume you are
nope