Why do men like to date multiple women at the same time?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

When you say "men", you DO realize that it is a VERY SMALL percentage of men who even CAN do this, right? The vast majority of men - I'm talking 85-90% of men - will live and die without ever having dated multiple women at the same time. There's probably less than 3% who do this on a regular basis.

And why does this small percentage of men do this? Because this group tends to be largely made up of the most attractive men - either because of their looks, their money, or their attitude - and this gives them the opportunity to do so, and because these men tend to be selfish and self-centered, and women let them get away with that because they are attractive. In other words, they do it because they can, and because they don't really respect women because it's so easy for them to get women - often women are throwing themselves at them, in fact. This teaches them that women are just there to be used, and then discarded as soon as they become boring or inconvenient.

V_Injector · Accepted Answer

Q: What is better than pussy?

A: More pussy.

Why do men like to date multiple women at the same time?

I hate to sound crass, but I'm being bluntly honest. I mean why do some women date multiple men? the same exact reasons except a man's goals isn't usually finding piggy banks with great careers and plenty of money to take and great genital action at the same time... if they even consider both as important.

Of course, I'm speaking in generalities here and there are always exceptions to the rule. But I don't feel I need to give the NAWALT talking point since you said "why do men" and I said "some women." So hopefully you don't respond from that angle at all.

Bottom line... women do the exact same thing pretty much on the same ratio level... although we often do it for different reasons.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I would say either they like the woman because of how she is different and a new flavour or he likes the impression more than the reality and impressions die once you get to know the person and see them behave the same way all other people do.

HelpfulWoman · Accepted Answer

plenty don't. stop being a dumbass assuming all men are the same

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Some guys do this because it feeds their weak ego. Most men don’t do this. I did this twice in my lifetime, briefly, and it was uncomfortable for me.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

In my younger years I was shocked to discover something: There is a large and easily accessible population of young women who are not looking to settle down. They are content to find that a man who will take them out to dinner, treat them nice, then take them home at the end of the night, and then NOT want to have a relationship or be attached to that man. It’s not that he’s not good enough for a relationship…it’s that they simply don’t want one! They like the fun of dating and the weight of a man but aren’t looking to commit to one. These can be very committed professionals, girls who wish to travel and live their life free of attachments or whatever but they are out there. Often these girls couldn’t care less what that man is doing on his time away from her because she’s not emotionally invested above a casual friends-with-benefits level.

Once some young dude realizes this, he may find two or more of these types of girls and ride the wave.

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

Yo I don’t know where this idea comes from? And I wish I lived in an area where the variety of women flowed like that as if they couldn’t know each other. And what guy has the spare time away from his work, responsibilities to have multiple girls and their problems and commitments. Lol one should be more than plenty enough if she’s worth it.
So not only this guy has to be super ballin’, made his money or, is still in college.
It’s all short lived too. Just watch and see how whomever’s multiple relationships pan out. Who knows maybe I’m wrong?🤷

supercutebutt · Answer

It's only a problem if the man is married. I think people of weak character who are in the public eye, like Donald Trump, get a lot of attention by cheating on their wives and it normalizes being a cheater. Then other weak-minded people defend their cult leader and attempt to emulate the filthy behavior.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Because we're just getting to know you or aren't looking for anything serious. The women I go on dates with are under no misconception that I am not with someone else if they are not there. Sometimes they even set me up with their friends, because they aren't looking for anything serious either. Since we're all on the same page and nobody has lied to anyone, where's the harm?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

That's what dating is! When did we create the rule that you can ONLY just one person at a time, like, as soon as you ask for the first date, you're committed for life? Dating MEANS: you're playing the field, dating a number of people at the same time and trying to eventually narrow down the field to just one that you might end up marrying! Once you both choose to go steady, THEN you only date that one person!! If you're not going steady, you're free as a bird!!

sheikalana · Answer

Most men don't date multiple women only very good looking, attractive, successful guys. They do it because they can and have options and they're not seen as whores and sluts if they have multiple partners. A man who's had plenty of partners will always find someone who eventually wants to stay with them. A woman who slept with the whole village will only be treated as a slut and her value decreases every time she sleeps with another guy.

red324 · Answer

I always did when I was doing online dating, like the girls weren't doing the same thing? Keep in mind I wasn't official with any of them. None of them ever decided to keep seeing me. I'd go on a couple dates, and they would find someone else.

Jackblue · Answer

It is simple, impregnating a woman is easy for us and doesn't really cost us anything. Women on the other hand want a man who will protect and provide for her while she is pregnant and vulnerable. However, if he is a good man he will resist such temptations.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Very, very, few men are like this. The men that do date multiple women are in the top 5% of men, and as such, they can do what they want. If you want a top tier man you had better get used to sharing him with other women.

Pohjolan · Answer

Fuckboys do. Most guys don't but fuckboys are a loud minority in this regard.

Anyway they prioritise short term mating and having fun over long term relationships.

And as far as women go fuckboys are a case of stated Vs revealed preference.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I'm unable to morally because in my mind I'm essentially cheating on one of them even though we aren't anything yet. I'd be afraid they would both be great and I'd have to make a choice that I may regret in the future. Also it can be really hard not to get information mixed up in my head between the two.

DishLady · Answer

Same reasons women do…. Partly to “keep their options open,” partly to figure out what they like. Additionally, it’s like a type of status symbol for some. 🤷🏻‍♀️ My take on it is to just stay safe regardless of how many people you choose to date.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Depends on the guy. Not all are like this  But women usually enable this by ignoring large swathes of men (who are their equivalents) and trying to compete and “date up” for a top 1% guy.

CriticalCatDad123 · Answer

I don’t date at all 🤣 who said majority of men were dating multiple women at the same time? Those men who are are crazy af! Most men can’t even put up with 1

Nikki1989 · Answer

How many men is that? Like 1% of the male population?

genericname85 · Answer

i would say most men won't do that. because most men aren't the "player" type dude. but i realize that women are more often exposed to the player type dude than not simply due to their nature.

molonski2 · Answer

Yes , speaking generally , unless fully committed most men will enjoy dating multiple women at the same time , without doubt.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Same as women like to have "multiple" partners at the same time...🤷‍♂️, even they "see them" with us holding hands...

Serkee · Answer

We don't. Only a select few fuckboys do, but unfortunately those fuckboys are the guys women tend to be attracted to.

boggboss · Answer

Most people that date these days date multiple partners at a time

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s a waste of time they must think that this is the bachelor. Can they really afford it to date five different women every week taking them out to nice dinners and paying for their wine.

fantasticass · Answer

Because women allow it. It has nothing to do with him, it's the women. I trust my boyfriend, however, don't trust women.

madewithingredients · Answer

it's fun at first but you very quickly get sick of it.

sage2021 · Answer

Are we talking about actually dating? Going places and doing things together or just sex?

Dongie · Answer

The question should be;Why don't men date more than one woman at a time. Which sucks. There's only so many to go around. Ah, shit, this world sucks.

Vegasrunner · Answer

It's so that they can remain w/ options. It takes longer from a man to replace a woman than vice versa so it's just a way to even the playing field.

Rangers · Answer

Cause those men are unloyal sh! theads who view women as sex objects Don't waste your time with them

Unit1 · Answer

you are only seeing the top 10% of men doing this. Most men are invisible to women.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I date to find a partner. Until I have done so, I might date multiple women, but I do not sleep with casual date partners.

Passerby2 · Answer

Mainly because women are fickle. It makes life more stress free. People say it takes more energy to date multiple women but they must have never done it. It takes less.

Paul09 · Answer

The question should be, "why do women love bad boys so much"? Because that's what they do use and abuse women. These aren't real men. They are a-holes.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It lowers the stress when one woman starts causing drama.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Exploring options. Just like girls are dating multiple guys. Aldo helps us from being too emotionally invested.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

If you mean dating sexually is because they desire to have sex with different women.  Just whoring around type of thing.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

They're horny and they can. Not many men can actually do this. They're also probably degenerated in many other forms of their lives

soe11 · Answer

Not anymore, have stable girlfriend and relationship.

Raaj4you · Answer

Nothing wrong in dating multiple women at a time. What if I fell in love with multiple women at a time? Then I have to marry all the women.

Anonymous · Answer

man they must be rich or just really desperate for sex.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Some men like to have choices among potential partners.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why women like to date multiple men at the same time.

Shy_Steve · Answer

The same reason any Girl would want to date multiple Guys.

theycallme_jd · Answer

Why do some questions have no truth yet look for further information?

Slim57 · Answer

Men and women both do this, to keep their options open in case one fails

Anonymous · Answer

There is a certain thrill to being desired by, and satisfying multiple women.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Because they are dating not exclusive?

rockhard9 · Answer

We love different smells and tastes

JacobJordan · Answer

Some men. Let's keep questions accurate

OtterMan68 · Answer

all men or a few men?

Anonymous · Answer

My guess is to keep their options open.

Redstang88 · Answer

No idea, why do women do it?

Booklover_90 · Answer

To “explore their options.”

Pennywise_6 · Answer

That's in their nature.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

more access to pussy (S)

Overandunder89 · Answer

Good old-fashioned greed.

NewUser22 · Answer

6 holes are better than 3.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Because that's what dating means.

RossyBoi · Answer

Do they? Not in my experience.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Love = business

Nicollette1984 · Answer

Cause having 2 sets of lips on you feels nice.

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