Women can't stand men who date multiple women at once but will watch a TV show about a man dating multiple women at once? Why?

[coachTanthony]

They also watch in record numbers? Why ladies why lol

[msc545]

A show full of a lot of gossip and backstabbing - women love this stuff.

[msc545]

thanks for mho

[RingOfFire]

DAYUMMMM! GREAT QUESTION!!!

[RingOfFire]

They've got this new one on TLC called "Love and Translation." The house full of girls are like fighting cats over three guys who live in the same house and go on dates with them one at a time. MROWWWWWWWWWWWW !!! The claws come out!

[coachTanthony]

lol crazy

[Rosexøxø]

Not like dating them around the same period, trying to keep them all, and also- a guy doing that in real life, on normal circumstances, seems to be using the women or just being indecisive, and not seeing either girl’s worth. Taken for granted.

Women don’t mind watching these to dream. Swoon. For drama. And also the guys seem a bit “trustworthy” or accountable, and undecided, like someone they can relate to because of the commentary, and such, of the guy and also because he’s being on a show and subconsciously, women will think this makes him close to being a “good guy.” “He wouldn’t cheat on them,” or keep dating both for a long time.

He’s on tv and he has producers to keep him “honest.” lol

Some ladies do sympathize and feel horrible for the ladies who get let down and led on by guys on these shows, who really just partake with these women like some dessert, buffet bar. 🤷‍♀️

[Rosexøxø]

It’s reality tv it’s not real. I personally enjoying seeing ladies glammed up like princesses observing the interactions and seeing as well as guessing which females get chosen or so and who’s the most compatible.

It’s enetertainingggg

Hence the name? lol

[coachTanthony]

They do have sex on the show and someone gets married at the end. That is all real and women despise it in real life but call it "entertaining" when it is happening to someone else.

[Rosexøxø]

Huh that’s really strange.

I think at that point most would believe their love and marriage was fake. They’re sex addicts. Shallow. Hooking up. Have money to spend. And probably nothing else to do.

It’s just not wholesome or practical lol

But it is entertaining 😆

[coachTanthony]

The very first bachelorette got married in 2003 and still married. I think people assume what you assume to make it feel more entertaining but some of these women are actually looking for love and a husband... they'll do it on tv but not in real life lol

[aceleon]

because no matter how much deny it to themselves what woman cares in a man is not his loyalty, it is his investment, when guys fuck other girls they get upset about ''what if she was younger, prettier, hotter or something more than me? what if he likes her more, what if he abandones me for her, what if he loves her more than he loved me?'' type of things (exceptions does not make rules) so most woman really don't give a damn about amans sexual past at least nothing compareable to guys caring about womans, even if it is in the past we don't like it because to us it is not about if he was better or she prefers him or such things it is not about her investment, it is about owning her as much as possible it is about not having another guys near her.

so when it comes to this type of guys on tv they have every trait they desire in a man and because he is fictional they can accept he might value them all the same, think like lions and lionesses, lion males are jealous and doesn't want other males around (their brothers or such is exception but even then they don't wanna share the same females if they can help it) while with lionesses they don't care about the other females mating with the male they all treated the same and they get what they desire from a male, everyone is happy.

[Radiate143]

Blah bkah blah 😑 🥱

[PeachyPie93]

Well I used to love watching Jersey Shore, and Pauly D and Vinny were my favourite people on the show, even though they were the biggest hoe bags. Now just because they make me laugh and I would enjoy being friends with people like them. It does not mean I would ever want to date a guy like that or be romantic with them. It is all for entertainment and drama purposes.

[coachTanthony]

That is a bad comparison. The show doesn't revolve around a bunch of women going on dates in order to marry a jersey shore guy.

[PeachyPie93]

Well actually they also had a show Vinny and Pauly D A Double shot at love its like the same thing hahaha where they date a bunch of girls to find a girlfriend.

[coachTanthony]

Yes and women don't have issues with men trying to find girlfriends lol They have issues with a man dating multiple women while the man dates them. Hence the hypocrisy of the show in question.

[PeachyPie93]

Well they are dating and kissing all these girls, but I suppose it is on a different level.
But I never was into The bachelor since the guys were always usually "Meh" looking and it was just cringy watching these beautiful women swoon over a boring average joe. So I'm not sure why other woman loved it lol.

[mandyfire98]

I'm fine with a guy who isn't exclusive and official, dating more than one person. You need to date and not put all of your eggs in one basket until you find the right person. It's bad to settle. It's better to date and find who's exactly right for you.

These reality shows ate watched a lot because they contain drama and it's fun to watch drama especially if we aren't in the middle.

[IslaTheWitch]

We also will watch movie about cheating, murder, war, etc. I'm not sure if you understand the difference between the TV shows and reality.

[coachTanthony]

Do they not get married at the end? Do they not have REAL sex on and after the show? YES and YES that is not fiction lol

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't know what do they have. Never visited and wouldn't even want to, their bedroom. It's a TV show.

[coachTanthony]

It's on TV it's not CSI Miami... there is a difference

[EmyyWolf]

No, they actually watch 50 Shades of Grey. Where a Hot Rich Alpha Male. Chooses one mediocre-looking bitch.
One piece of ass. ☝️ And Her Alone.

If anything, women actually like to FLAUNT, and BRAG, about how they achieved the man, all ladies wanted.

They don’t actually like for men to be FBOYS. They just want the HOT DOMINANT male to choose her, and only her.

[MzAsh]

These shows are incredibly boring. People often ask me to comment on them and I’m like I have no idea about them. All I know is a little about Gerry from Golden Bachelor because I had to write a couple articles on him. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[coachTanthony]

Record number of women watch these shows but say it's just drama but please don't be a guy in my real life who dates multiple women.

[KrakenAttackin]

@coachTanthony. Psychology today reviewed a study of what women value vs don't value. The three LEAST valued traits by women were "intelligence, kindness, and faithfulness".

[KrakenAttackin]

@MzAsh. "Incredibly boring", then why are they so popular with women?

[MzAsh]

Beats me! What piece are you referring to?

[NathanDavis]

I do watch a whole lot of bad stuff... for entertainment, like war, crime, horror, and what not, but that's just entertainment

I certainly do not confuse it with my real life, not at all...

I do not endorse demons slaying and causing havoc all over the place, no... that's just silly entertainment on the screen, not real life, lmao

[Radiate143]

Women don't like men who claim they are inly dating them but are actually dating around and use manipulation, lies and mind games to gaslight them into thinking they are the only one so they can reap the max benefits of a committed relationship from as many women as possible.

[Billlewis]

Why? Because we're a bunch of fragile ego hypocrites who can't handle them doing what we've been doing for decades. Sorry to be so harsh, guys; I just call 'em as I see 'em.

[coachTanthony]

They are all dating one man lol not the other way around lol

[Billlewis]

Well, that's true, too... the top 20%, or less.

[handsomelad70]

It's occurring to another chick, not them.

[Anonymous]

It is entertainment and all the emotional drama gets their juices going.

But still how many guys like watching men in movies get screwed over by women (or have guys chasing girls/kissing their asses). We HATE watching other guys act that way. So why do women like watching other women get taken advantage of by men?

I walked out of the “hitch” movie years ago when Will Smith was chasing that bitchy girl towards the end (who was already with another guy). It just made me cringe.

[Dinklex3]

Because it’s just fake tv. I watch horror movies, doesn’t mean I’d enjoy being haunted or possessed IRL.

I used to watch Flavor of Love as a kid. Doesn’t mean I wanted to date Flav 🤮

It was just entertainment television. That’s all.

[coachTanthony]

Lol sounds like hypocrisy and an excuse. The show is produced but real sex happens and someone usually ends up actually married. women love that for other women why? They love watching humiliation?

[Dinklex3]

? Hypocrisy in regards to watching fictional television, but not wanting to do the same?
Real sex may happen. I’ve never seen any that ended up married. People love the juicy gossip and drama that happens in the background. A lot of people get on those shows just to be on tv and hope it opens up different opportunities for them. Even Tila Tequila Shot at Love, they were just looking for a good time. Woman love what for other woman?
I think you’re thinking too deeply into it.
I’ve watched porn where the man slaps the woman in her face. Do I want to be slapped? No. Would I be pissed if I was slapped? Yes.
You’re reaching really hard to connect dots that aren’t there. Maybe you don’t watch television, movies, or read books? Is that why you’re having a hard time?

[coachTanthony]

Very first bachelorette married in 2003 and is still married to this day. Nothing fictional about that. Most people like yourself assume a lot. That’s okay. I’m here to straighten it all out. Thanks for the comments

[Dinklex3]

Flavor of Love, I Love New York, Real Chance of Love, Tila Tequila a Shot at Love. They’re fictional, never end up with the same person, and have multiple seasons. They are for entertainment. I’ve never seen Bachelorette so I wouldn’t know about that, but you’re making an assumption here that all these shows are real based on your one show, when they aren’t.

[coachTanthony]

How? Where? The entire post is about ONE show. Never made any claims about any other show.

[Dinklex3]

🥴
Maybe clarify that you’re talking about that ONE specific show in your title or details

[coachTanthony]

The picture is of the show how much more clarity does one need lmao it’s not a photo of a bunch of reality shows

[Dinklex3]

Not everyone has seen the bachelor and plenty of people post pictures in relation to the topic. “Watch a tv show” not specifying one or informing us you’re only talking about “The bachelor” of course is going to have people thinking about the television shows they’ve watched about one man dating multiple women. As evidenced by your comment section.
Very nice troll though 👌

[coachTanthony]

Most people understand which show I’m talking about. They are not guessing or assuming like you that it’s flava flav lol

[Dinklex3]

If you’ve read your comments most mention different shows they’ve watched that have to do with one man and multiple women as stated in your title, not just “The bachelor”

[coachTanthony]

Some have …. understanding that I’m talking about the bachelor. There’s not one comment asking what show is this?

[Dinklex3]

Lol. I never said people asked what show you were talking about. Try re-reading.

[coachTanthony]

You said I should put the show name on the post. Why? What would change?

[KrakenAttackin]

Yup, they also by MILLIONS of copies of "50 Shades of Gray", which is BDSM, fisting, etc...

To be female is to be hypocritical. This is why men run the world as the world cannot run on hypocrisy.

[coachTanthony]

They end up having REAL sex on this show and get married at the end. That is all real. 50 shades is pure fiction and fantasy.

[KrakenAttackin]

@coachTanthony. Right, but women watch/read both. A woman's world is mostly fantasy.

[coachTanthony]

They should fantasize about dating a man who dates multiple women in real life then lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@coachTanthony. In a way they do. They fantasize about dating athletes, rappers, super-wealthy men; types that have no reason to be faithful.

[coachTanthony]

Yes they will give those a pass but the average Joe better be only dating me lol

[katiesmuff]

Many things women do with TV shows makes me wonder about them. Watching these dumb ass shows like The Bachelor, Love Island, or anything that has a Kardashian involved with it. All that junk is just wasted hours of your life.

[Bricealan]

Fantasy is one thing - but reality is another - Coach?

[coachTanthony]

Maybe a bit hypocritical as well.

[Bricealan]

agree

[AmyHew1tt]

I personally get annoyed by those shows, but for others, it's pure entertainment and doesn't reflect what you like in real life.

Like, most women who read really unhinged dark romances are going to be the first to spot a red flag in a real-life guy and run the other way.

[Anonymous]

Says who? You? What are your sources? Have you asked every single out of the billions of women living on earth? Sounds like one of your usual exaggerated scenarios, intending to stir the pot... and thus generate more comments for the site

[Opinion Owner]

*every single woman

[coachTanthony]

You sound angry 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Still no sources? 😂 That's what I thought
Not angry at all; just pointing out the absurdity of this question

[coachTanthony]

You sound like a child. People understand I don't mean "every" woman on the planet.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, you've been criticized about the way you phrase your questions ("do men/women do this/or that") before. I'm surprised no one said anything this time

[Opinion Owner]

*many times before

[coachTanthony]

That has never happened. Only unintelligent people or trolls will say stuff that you are saying. Stop the cap.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you're projecting. Are you talking about yourself? Because most of your questions are pretty unintelligent, repetitive and bland... I could mention some of the usernames that have called you out so far, (even that moderator said they're crap yesterday), but that's against the rules of the site

[coachTanthony]

Moderator never said that now you are making stuff up.

[Opinion Owner]

"some of yours...

all that alpha/simp BS and nonsense, among other things..."

[Opinion Owner]

What kind of posts do you find cringeworthy here on GAG? ↗

[coachTanthony]

"many other are very good questions, I am not missing those either"

and he never said they were crap. I gave him MHO. So again you are upset and angry that my questions get eyeballs and comments. Sorry I am popular.

[Opinion Owner]

You just post clickbaity stuff.
Popularity doesn't necessarily equal quality. The Kardashians have millions of followers on social media lol

[coachTanthony]

Don't be jelly

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao yes, cause getting a lot of answers in Gag questions, means you stood up for something 😂

[coachTanthony]

Someday if you work hard you too can make a difference. Thanks for the comments and support.

[Anonymous]

So because I watch a lot of crime shows I’m automatically going to kill someone? What a stupid theory. TV is TV and so is social media. This is not real life and the people who spend too much time online tend to confuse real life with social media.

[coachTanthony]

Crime shows are fiction. People have sex on this show and they do end up marrying someone. So your comparison is horrible lol

[Opinion Owner]

Actually no, they aren’t fiction. I don’t watch CSI I watch the real life crime shows of actual cases, some even show the dead bodies of the real victims.
Second, reality TV is never real and you’re gullible to think so. All of the people on the show are paid actors and actresses, hired to play a part and in the end don’t even end up together long term anyways.
And then having sex, so what? What are you foreign to the fact that 2 people attracted to eachother have sex?

Like I said, you and many other chronically online people confuse social media with real life. Women watch this because it’s entertaining. Not because they want to live that lifestyle. Like me watching Jodi Arias, who brutally murdered her boyfriend, stabbed his body, shot him in the head and took pictures of the ordeal for the world to see, I watch it because it’s entertaining. Duh.

[coachTanthony]

There is no confusion here. Please stop assuming that. The bachelor has producers but sex happens on the show and someone actually gets married at the end. Women don't want their man dating other women at the same time but gladly watch for "entertainment" sake a bunch of hoes dating one man. Hypocrisy. Thanks for the comments.

[Opinion Owner]

When you drive past a car wreck and you’re watching and staring at the person in the wreck, are you staring because you secretly want to be the person in the horrible car wreck? No you’re fucking not, you’re staring because it’s interesting to look at. Use your brain you’re way too old to still have this moronic mindset.

Your point has no basis. Hollywood is literally fake and all of the shows are scripted. You look at the percentage of couples who actually stay together is lower than 50%. Also the fact that just because a couple is presented as together to the media, doesn’t mean they are. It’s all fake and I know it’s fake because I live in LA where they film this bullshit and know people who have been on similar shows.

You are a sucker full and through.

[Opinion Owner]

And I find it so funny you know all of the details to these shows like you’ve wasted your time watching them. It’s a laugh, really that you know what’s happening at the end of these shows. Seems like you’re the WOMAN these shows are targeting for views.

[coachTanthony]

You're wrong. Thanks for the comments.

[Opinion Owner]

Hah! Classic response. You’re welcome hopefully one day you’ll end up as one of the women on the BACHELORETTE

[Puppystarfish23]

They bought it to the UK for abit and I thought it was total crap and abit immoral safe to say it didn't last long

[Unit1]

some women need drama in their life. I know my "father" is a drama generator. Weird people.

Maybe these women indulge in something they Want to confirm how polygamous men are trouble. I mean in contrast boys watch gold digger videos but claim to dislike them. talking about my younger self that is.