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27F Earlier last week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie Saturday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Saturday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but Saturday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. I left his message on seen. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess. My social anxiety gets the better of me with these situations I’m cursed. I just don’t get why I can’t find a guy that wants to fight for me

TL; DR: Should I have replied when this guy said he was no longer interested?

Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Yesterday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie today. Yesterday evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Today before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him yesterday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but today was so off, he sent a message just now saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him.

Me and he are in a serious relationship since 2 years now ( his family knows about me and my family, except my dad knows about him). He is most of the times too rude for no reason like he asks me my salary and I asked him that if he loves me then why does he see me so low? he finally confessed to me that He has trust issues and is unable to still open up because he said - " I am scared, I am unable to express because of my ex "

I have trust issues too because he follows random girls on insta and cuts my calls abruptly as he has two jobs. He explained me that he also cuts his mom's calls as he has two jobs and that I shouldn't feel bad.

When he said me that he would have slapped me if he was there in person because someone from a fake account texted a girl he followed on instagram ( he just follows one girl on instagram) - " he is cheating on you ", it got me on my nerves ( I felt too bad thinking he is sounding like he would abuse me). I couldn't sleep all night after that conversation over call.

I have finally expressed to him that I was emotionally abused by dad since childhood like him tont, belittling me, sometimes physically abuse like slapping ( my bro protects me and mom) and I don't know what it is like to have a family and a dad because dad always went out with friends and no time at all for kids. This was the only thing I hid from him since 2 years and I was like now he knows everything about me and I'm not hiding anything. That's how I started to earn on my own. He said me he'd protect me ( he started behaving like Mr prince charming suddenly) etc but I was like not needed, my bro takes care of me and mom.