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Have you ever felt that strong connection to someone where it feels like you've known them their whole life? I felt that connection with my ex. The first time we made eye contact, I felt that connection and I think he felt it too. It wasn't a normal physical attraction but I felt the connection from within my soul. I don't know if this is what people mean by "soulmates". Needless to say, things didn't work out probably due to distance and his immaturity. I still love him, and feel as if I'll never be able to forget him. I have never felt this connection with anyone else before. Sometimes I wonder if we'll meet again in the future and be able to work things out. Has anyone else felt this connection? What's your story?

I've posted several? over the last few years about my ex husband. For several reasons, I cannot remove him from my life, but I really wish that I could sometimes.

Bottom line, he DOES NOT THINK before he acts. And I'm at a point where I cannot believe that he actually cares, beyond his own selfish desire not to lose me completely.

He's perfectly capable of behaving for a few weeks, or at least until I'm not mad anymore, then he just slips right back into old habits. So I also cannot believe it's the ADHD.

Everyone keeps trying to tell me it's his ADHD. He can't afford the only Rx that works for him without making him sick, so he's unmediacted.

He often says and does things that leave me feeling embarrassed to be with him in public. He always puts himself first. Many times when we were married he did things that put me at risk, physically and financially, and he was never even phased, because he didn't suffer for the consequences. Ultimately, I divorced him because I HAD to clean up after him all the time so that I was not left to financial ruin, or in the hospital. And that's the problem. He never has to be accountable for his actions, because someone else is always too close in proximity to allow him to fall without going down with him.

So where is the line? How much should I put up with because he "can't help it"? I think it's bullshit! When it comes to work and school, he is VERY serious and responsible, so where's that mentality at home, when it comes time to pay bills and do chores, or save money for the weekly group outing, rather than expect someone else to cover him? He's the only one who never contributes at group outings, other than for me, but I'm not the one he owes money to nor the only one who has to deal with his faux pas.