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Search Results: in the time of the butterflies
If you don't experience immediate full-on attraction to a guy in the beginning, will it develop over time if you like their personality?
So there's this guy who has been trying to reach out to me for a while and I agreed to go on a date with him recently. I don't have butterflies or sparks yet but I feel comfortable around him and enjoy his company. He is...
Coolchick101
Xper 5 Age: 26 Girls, have you ever liked someone but when you guys finally kiss you feel nothing?
Its kinda weird and hard to explain... But yeah the "sparks" there are none, you feel no butterflies when you kiss. I still see them as VERY attractive and cool... but I know now that I'd just either want to stay as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I wait for him?
So I had this high school flame. We never were official in the few 3 years of our "flirtationship". But our families are super close and his parents and siblings love me. And really he's the only guy my dad has ever...
riverplate7
Xper 5 Age: 29 Why don't I feel a spark with anyone?
I have dated plenty of awesome, nice, attractive guys and I don't get butterflies when I'm around any of them. The last time I got this feeling was with my high school boyfriend. I am now in my mid twenties and can't seem...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why I never get the girls I really want?
Girls call me good looking, hot etc. so it can't be my looks. I have had many girls I dont like telling me they have feelings. I used to act needy, desperate and insecure with girls I liked so they got turned off. But...
Anonymous
(25-29) Being cheated on made my fear commitment?
I just found out almost 3 months ago that my boyfriend (now ex) had been cheating on me. Ever since I found out, i have been 100% turned off my intimacy and relationships and sex. I met a guy about a month ago, and he is...
Anonymous
(30-35) Butterflies in your stomach?
How common would you say it is to feel the proverbial butterflies in your stomach when meeting someone for the first time?
JohnnyBallez
Xper 2 Age: 48 How can I️ get her to talk to me and be herself?
hello, I️ am a 16 year old guy in high school and I️ have some girl problems. I️ know I’m young, but I️ feel pretty strongly about this girl. She likes me too, but I️t seems like all we do is text/communicate on social...
Anonymous
(18-24) What should I do?
I'm in college and there is a guy in my class who I'm interested in. I think he already kinda senses it. I'm 22 years old and I'm a really really shy girl. Not that much quiet but just shy. Anytime I had to speak up in...
nella965
Explorer Age: 32 I just had my first kiss and I didn’t feel anything?
No butterflies, no nothing. It was awkward and a bit terrifying. Does it mean I don’t like the guy? Is it just because it’s my first time? Advice?
Anonymous
(25-29) Is she pushing me away or did I scare her off?
So, here's the telegram message about the current situation: Usually, my friend Tia here is pretty outgoing and quite the social butterfly whenever we talk but as of these past 2 months, she's been very distant but it...
Is It Weird To Be With Someone For Years But Still Feel Nervous Like You Haven't?
I noticed with my boyfriend I'm still very nervous a lot of the times we go out, or when we're together. So basically all the time. And it's not a bad nervous he just makes me feel really light and excited about things....
Anonymous
(30-35) "That Beautiful Cashier Girl" - The Conclusion
The moment of truth. It is a triumphant moment for a young man. The high of approaching the cashier girl whom I am sweet on and also overcoming my fear of approaching an unfamiliar person has finally subsided. In hopes...
Moray
Xper 6 Age: 37 Not sure if he's really into me or not?
So i met this guy in Highschool and we both liked eachother but he was dating my good friend (at the time).. But he just recently contacted me and you can tell there is something there, he gives me butterflies and makes...
lahvxox
Xper 4 Age: 30 Is he still into me?
Hi there, I am a girl in her 30's and he is a man in his 40's we have known each other for a long time (just through me being a regular at the restaurant he works at) it had been about 6 months since I had gone in while...
Jess28snow
Xper 4 Age: 42 Good friend or romantic match?
I'm seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He's great - sweet, funny, nice looking, similar interests and we just get eachother. I've been dating him for a while but I am really confused. I'm not falling in love with...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Should I ask for him back to has he moved on?
So, me and this guy met in the summer in a very romantic and cute, basically the first time we met, we talked straight for an hour in a tent and it was amazing. I got butterflies anytime I was around him and we got really...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this workout routine okay?
Okay, so basically I go climbing twice a week for two hours each time. Not all of this is climbing; some of it is simply setting up the rope or belaying someone else. I do both top-roping and bouldering. I've just set...
Anonymous
(25-29) Bounce back problems. Ideas?
I'm with a guy who was a bounce back from a previous relationship. And it's gotten serious.. We have zero chemistry and I feel awful.. I feel if I had given it more time beforehand I would have grown to have feelings for...
-Jackie_nightlights-
Xper 2 Age: 26 Is my new boyfriend a bad influence or are my friends overreacting?
So I'm dating this guy who's a bit of a wild child aha :) He loves taking risks and is always doing something unconventional/strange. He loves going on adventures & he gets into trouble sometimes but it's all in harmless...
Anonymous
(30-35) 