Search Results: infatuation

Is she interested?

Does she like me?

How to know if a girl is interested.

She did this. Is it a sign?

Whenever I see these sorts of questions, I just jump straight into a cynical answer with the intent to kill the guy's hope.

"It's all in your head."

"You're looking too much into this. Forget about her."

"She's not interested. Don't water your time and move on."

Basically anything along those lines.

It irks me so to picture some fool mistaking infatuation for love. So, I step in to dismantle their false hope so they don't waste their time pursuing someone who won't like them back.

Girls team tend to say similar things, but they're actually being helpful. How dare this fuckin' creep think he has a chance with this person. And they're right.

Am I some kind of monster for doing this?

Or, am I just doing that poor, mistaken fool a favor?

I am 23 years old, and I never had an actual girlfriend.

I am about 5'7" in height and weigh approximately 175lbs. I am a little heavyset, but I am not obese by any means (you should see the people here where I live... talk about obese).

I am mostly an introvert. I do not like to party. I used to drink, but I very seldom have an alcoholic beverage now.

I do not like large crowds or gatherings, unless I am in uniform and serving in a position of authority or trust (I work in public safety... sort of... used to). I am a licensed Advanced Emergency Medical Technician and have worked in EMS for two years. I no longer work in EMS, and I have taken a break.

I am a huge computer nerd. I am skilled and educated in Hypertext Markup Language (HTML), Cascading Styling Sheets (CSS), JavaScript, Structured Query Language (SQL), PHP, Asynchronous JavaScript and XML (AJAX), Javascript Object Notation (JSON), Google Maps API, and the Bootstrap Framework. I am a full-stack web developer and a creator of dynamic, responsive web applications and Content Management Systems (CMS).

I used to be a huge gym buff, not so much anymore.

I live at home still. I am still dependent financially on my parents. I am unemployed as of currently and spend most of my time learning programming, so that one day, I can score a career in programming and web development.

In the meantime, I am working on projects that can potentially make a lot of money in and of itself.

I do not leave the house much anymore as I am completely dedicated to programming. I strike out on dating websites all the time.

I seek a particular type of woman, one that has never had a romantic bond herself. That is largely why I have the excuse of being single at this point in time.

I have a southern accent, and I am from the south. I can get easily attached with explosive feelings of infatuation towards any potential partner.

I am a "hopeless romantic". I have an INFP personality type.