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As silly as it may sound or be, but i truly do believe that even being in a relationship with someone requires some type of experience.

So yes, you'll have to go through one, two, five, or a few breakups, in order for you to actually realize what it is you're looking for, or aren't looking for in a partner.
Because often times we tend to think that we know what we want or what we
re looking for, when ultimately that isn't quite the case, especially if you're very young and step into a relationship with someone for the first time.
You tend to think that you'll be with this person forever.
That he or she will/might be the only one but, down the line isn't.
I'm not saying it isn't possible but, the possibility of you being with the first ever person, second, or third for the rest of your life, with no cheating, breaks being involved, or breaking up and getting back together for the 2nd or 3rd time is a 10% possibility.

It's not how we want it to but, fortunately, it's how the Grand Design has designed things to be

There was this 1 lady i Fancied or had a crush on in my old school class, but not sure if it was strong enough to call it a crush,
i didn't like... think of her all the time n fantasise about her n shit...
i jus thought she looked really good when i saw her in class... it was more like 😍😍😍 feeling,
also i thought she was really cute and friendly... like her personality... i liked that too...

but would u call that a crush? I dont think what i was feeling was strong enough to call that a crush,
I was reading some article about crushes and the writer said about “crying” about getting over the old crush... thats why im not sure i had a crush on that teacher... cos crying over not being with him seems a little daft to me... little silly, i wasn't that emotionally invested in her,
didn't think of her all the time.
jus had this sort of feeling. 😍😍😍 when i saw her,

so did i have a crush on her or jus fancied her? Not sure what to call it