Men need to be strong, be winners, in order to deserve anything. I fully believe that. I believe self esteem is critical for taking action as men and winning. I don't believe men or women inherently deserve anything, if they don't do the work.
I feel like using game to get a date or fun is fine but I don't think it works for relationships. I think it starts them off on the wrong foot in most cases. I think to not do that, you need to find based red pilled women- or down to earth types or girls with life experience and maturity, which is not a function of age by the way.
I think US culture has been skewing to low self-esteem, anti-community, destiny beliefs (vs growth beliefs). All this makes ripe for game taking over, because it creates instantaneous emotion, but I think entering into a relationship like that, which is necessary if you want kids and a family so you can be a patriarch or matriarch and so you don't die alone but have celebrations with grandkids in your ripe old age and so you can have a lifetime of fun experience with a partner, if you enter into a relationship with a game approach, I just think it's a cracked foundation, yet it can be hard to get or find or start one. So men must as always focus on themselves, their career. I suggest being social and outgoing and not chasing but being social. Talking to people and being social doesn't constitute chasing. It took me a while to realize that. Develop self esteem. The environment is a hard one and the market is a bad one in my opinion but all the more reason to be strong. I see the pressures and forces people in this society are under, that make them take one of several response strategies, including gaming, doubling down on being nice, mgtowing etc. I see the forces that cause this and the resultant effect forces. My strategy is to multiply self esteem, be productive, be social (this is critical) and let what happens happens, and then be game aware so I'm not outflanked, to be worldly wise. To be clear I want to win but I don't know how I can force a win. I decided it's probably better to focus on being respected in groups and in 1:1 conversations, than being attractive.
FYI - Just now some attractive young white lady (I'm a healthy young white male) came to my door to canvas for my rep Ohmar. It's amazing she assumed I was leftist liberal or on board. People always do. Why? Don't they know there are Trump supporters for instance? I didn't dispossess her of this idea. I hate people giving all their love and energy to a. politics, b. leftist politics, c. anything other than personal happiness and community. It seems like a waste of their virtue, and then she assumed what I was. In no other culture I feel is there such a divide between men and women than my own- and I feel that's why men get cynical and turn to game. Both the cynical and the practical use game, interestingly, the latter because they know all else tends to fail, but what works in the long run has to be natural strength and respect. But I know the environment is twisted in deep ways and can make things much harder and stranger. It is like a psychological war, a war of beliefs and values that people swallow or don't, which can create another point of division. Just the fact that so much has changed in terms of non religious beliefs and values is clear indication of something like that. I've traveled the world and most cultures don't have anywhere near the internal division. Therefore game is the one thing that can trigger emotion, which triggers destiny belief receptors in the brains of silly individuals. It will just not work long term and I want something lasting. I've already ridden the pussy carousal lol.
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