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BadBoy: You know the drill. He's a rebel for no cause. Life is a rollercoaster of emotions when you are around him. You can't tell what happens next, but you know he means trouble... And you like it.
He lives life his way, he doesn't care about goddamned rules. Life is a gambit where you have nothing to lose and he sure takes advantage like that. Every day is a new adventure. He's the bad decision your parents didn't want you to take. He's the guy that speaks to the child in you, or maybe to that part of you that never really cared for society's boundaries anyways.
He is the definition of freedom.

Passionate Guy: He is a gentleman. He is the type of guy that goes to a party, and his only concern is meeting people. He's the male version of a social butterfly. He loves to talk about his passions and dreams, and loves to listen for yours. He knows the more people he has in his network, the better-off he is.
Now, he is very success focused. If he has a goal he will go through Hell and back for it. He will die for that goal if need be. You're important, but not that much. Should you try to blackmail him or in any way interfer with his plans, he will most likely forget all about you.
But you are more than welcome to stay with him. You are more than welcome to lay down with him and think "This guy is going to be someone, one day".
He is definition of dedication.

We're in relationship after 5 times dating.
Kissed and after sometimes we're in bed (no sex).
We're on long distance relationship
Early on, she's very sweet and we had passion for each other. We could talk for hours, and planning on when to see each other again. We could talk anything, and feel connected.

Our parents are friends. They're happy to see us together.

After 5 months, she lost interest, and said she's not
ready for relationship, because she broke up not long ago after we're together, and ask me to find another. but we never declare breakup. Also she mentioned that we're moving too fast.

She stated "most probably will take me as an older brother for her"

We met 3 times in 3 months, after that she's gradually distant from me.
Short talk on phone & skype.
Seems to avoid me. either she's busy or watching movies, or going to sleep.
Feels like there's no respect for me and no more time spend on me.

She doesn't want to talk about us that much.
Now is already 2 months and I wonder how long this could go on.. no real communication.
Now and then, I just call her at night and ask about how her days. nothing major, only few minutes.

I might be too possessive and insensitive sometimes, but I told her if that's the problem, I could make changes. and she said nothing.. then I slowed down on call or text.

Planning to see her in few days time. try to surprise her, and talk in person about what's gone wrong and what can we fix..
I'm confused with this situation.
I'm just guessing that the main problem is lack of intimacy.

I'm sure she's not the kind that could take me as a rebound.
and I believe that she won't see another guy
because we've talked and I strongly believe that she's not the kind that could go out with anyone and play around.

Something is missing here. I need to straight it up.
Just need some opinion here.. would like to hear from you people..

It's a 8 hour flight away, is it worth it to go?

Thanks! =]

In college I have been talking to a girl that I really like. At first we hung out a lot and at one point I asked her to go on a night hike with me so I could share my passion with her. she agreed. I was busy and wasn't able to go. we have been to a lot of like parties and I have seen her there. we would flirt, push a little, and she always seemed to smile when I was around and take my side on most things. One day that our friends group hung out and I happened to be in a bad mood that day so I was sort of the downer... even then I asked her if we were still going to do the hike and she said yes but nothing has happened... at this point I still feel like I had a shot but by the end of the week I found out she had asked another guy to her sororities invite... last time we saw face to face I was in a bad mood. then at one point I found out that she thought I was talking to some girl the Tuesday before this invite... I don't know if she doesn't like me that way or that lead her away. The night of the invite at midnight she texted me and talked to me about what I had been up to the previous few nights. I responded and asked that shouldn't she be attending to her date. she said she lost him. I was jealous and annoyed she was texting me so I told her I don't like being used to kill time (she responded that she just wanted to talk to me but I didn't answer for 3 days). In 3 days I told her i'd missed her wonderful presence... she responded that we should hang out. i agreed. then she bailed and told me she was busy... didn't text her for a while and invited her to play ultimate frisbee... she agreed then couldn't show... she has been blaming it on sorority stuff. on a Friday night we talked at a bench on campus and we talked life. I told her I like her (i'd told her drunk at beginning of year). I asked if she ever did and she said she likes to take her time and has never had a crush. also said she is unsure of other guy. all girls catholic school with recent first kiss

We have known each other a long time. Been through a lot together, But there is one thing she does that I do not like. I bit my tongue and just let it go for so long. She was getting ready to go away with her family for a week and pulled this bad behavior on me again. I got drunk and confronted her about it.

Normally, with others in her life she will not back down and even escalate an argument. She refuses to lose. But in this case, she didn't even fight me. She calmly stood up on a couple things she disagreed with, but overall just apologized and talked me through.

I totally planned on this being the end. I set the bridge on fire, but she managed to put it out. By the end I was calm and back to myself and we were joking around. I told her I loved her, she told me she loved me. She said she promised to change this bad behavior as she planned on me being around for the rest of our lives. I apologized to her for being loud and emotional, which is unlike me. She said "Don't worry about it. I thought it was kind of cool to see that side of you. I liked seeing that passion and that you have a backbone to say what you feel."

That was 3 days ago and I know she left for vacation to get away and recharge her batteries and get away from the stresses here. She has not been in contact since. No text, no call, no email.

Should I not reach out while she is gone? Should I wait for her to contact me?

Literally, all of my friends have had a girlfriend at one point, and when I mean friends, I mean 95% of the guys I know. Of course I haven't, because I'm a total fucking loser. Like, what's wrong with me, I'm not ugly, I'm attractive, so why am I single? It's not fair, not to mention, a lot of my friends have also lost their virginities. I mean, it's not fair, I DIDN'T ASK TO BE A LOSER. Of course, everyone else gets paired off and I get no one, god, I hate myself so much. It's not fair, it's not fair, it's not fucking fair, wtf is wrong with me!! Every fucking girl I know is taken, I hate them! And I don't want to wait til college, that'd just make me even more of a fucking loser than I already I am, I'd take a screwdriver to the head if I wind up in that position. I mean, WHAT DO THEY HAVE THAT I DON'T? I am attractive, I am intelligent, and I am kind, so why can't I get a girlfriend, god, I HATE MYSELF WITH A PASSION AT THIS POINT! See me, I believe in survival of the fittest, so, if I can't find a mate I am obviously unfit and deserving of death, I am a failed byproduct of evolution. Haha, I'm going to die a fucking virgin, fucking loser. Don't tell me bullahit about hope and not giving up, those are fucking lies.