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I’m not implying that by saying yes mean you hate your kids or anything because I’m pretty sure that isn’t the case...

As I get older the topic of kids gets brung up a lot and usually people get turned off if I say I don’t really want them especially now. But I’ve talked to a lot of mom/dads both single and married with kids and a large group of them says they love their kids but they wish they weren’t parents and had not felt pressured to have kids because of Society and or family. Some even says that they thought kids could make them happier and help their marriages and that turned out to not be the case. Now they are stuck for life being either a single parent or stuck with another person ( man or woman) that they hate while raising the child. I hear a lot of family say that if they knew better they’d possibly be single and child free traveling the world instead they have to support a spouse and/or child (ren)

Which is why I don’t want kids. If I get a puppy I can get rid of it if needed but you can’t do that with kids. They are such a permanent decision.

Which is why I ask, do you regret having children?

Sorry for any misspelling lol

Here is the situation: You have been with your partner for 10 mths. You recently broke up for 3 weeks and have been back together for just 3 weeks also. The reason behind the split was due to your partners unhealthy lifestyle which was affecting the relationship in many ways namely they were being secretive and lying to you to cover up their issue.

Since getting back together your partner has made an active effort to get their life back on track and although it's only time that can help you learn to trust again you have been trying to be encouraging and supportive as well.

However your partner gets upset over something you say and overreacts and he refuses to try and see your point or even take on board how you feel. He then proceeds to sit at the dinner table with his 2 young kids, your young child and you but won't eat anything, instead he chooses to sulk, roll his eyes at you when you ask why he isn't eating and rudely state that he has lost his appetite.

He then once kids are in bed, goes to sit outside to ignore you for hours, you go out after a while to see if he wants to talk and he still refuses to see your point and just argues, raising his voice at you, swearing at you and telling you to fuck off. Bear in mind you don't live together and this is your home, him and his kids were just staying for the weekend.

You walk away because there is no point in continuing the argument. You go to bed, he eventually comes up and grabs his pillow from your bed and goes to sleep with his son on the spare bed instead.

You are so mad that he is acting this way after only being back together for 3 weeks that you decide to send him a text message :

I can't handle your Shitty attitude and I'm not interested in starting 2018 off like this, you ignoring me, shouting at me and telling me to fuck off in my own home so perhaps just go home tomorrow. Go and enjoy your New Years Eve with your kids, I will do the same with my daughter then their will be no further arguments.