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This guy and I are incredibly shy at work. I’m 20 and he’s 22. He doesn’t talk to many people. At first he didn’t really talk or socialize with me. Last month I overheard him whispering to another guy and they were both looking at me. He does things for me without me even asking (getting things for me, holding doors open, helping get things that we need for next shift). Also very recently (as in like two weeks ago) he has started to sit in the seat I always sit in at this table (he never stays to eat lunch but recently has). And I always sit a few seats away from him. I said that’s my seat and he said with a smile oh I thought it was my seat and I’m like no it’s mine I always sit there and you know this and he laughed and said oh ok. He also bumps into me a lot but recently I’ve been jumping back when he comes near me (lol). He held the door open for me one time and said you’re welcome loudly in a joking voice and I said no and stuck my tongue out and then he laughed. When it’s the two of us and I am talking he just says yeah or laughs and doesn’t really say much in response. When I ask him a question he does answer. It’s very awkward when it’s the two of us. We are both awkward and shy. He hasn’t made a move on me and I’ll admit sometimes I do blantly avoid him and sometimes I flirt with him and he does the same thing to me. He doesn’t go out of his way to help other girls, hell he doesn’t even talk to other girls at my job. He seems more comfortable talking with guys but I guess I’m the same since I talk to girls more than guys but I don’t go that way.

I met this nice guy 3 months ago. He started flirting with me and ask if we can hangout sometimes. I said yes and he ask for my phone number. He texted me last month on August 18th wanting to hangout. We did hangout for a couple hours before he went home. He keep telling me that he find me attractive and like me. I haven't heard from him after a week. So I did send him a text asking how he doing and what he been up to. No response. I waited another week to send another text message. No response. I was talking to my female friend about it. She told me that he is the same guy who had been texting her everyday starting from August 19th. He went to see her at the job where she is a waitress in a restaurant. He asked her out and wanted to possible take the relationship to the next level. I was not happy after hearing all of the informations. It made me realize why he never respond back to my text messages. He was texting another woman. My friend send him a text and ask him about me. It took him a day to respond back to her message. He apologized and told my friend that he was sorry for blowing me off. I did send him a text messages telling him that I know about him texting another woman and that I am done chasing after him. I feel that he did played me for a fool. My friend decide to stopped texting him and keep our friendship. I was surprised cause I didn't mean to cause the dramas like that. She told me that he was in the wrong in this situation. I haven't talk or send him any text messages for two weeks now. I was serious when I told him that I don't have the times for his games.