Search Results: why guys don't make moves

I need tips about what to do if I dont feel like dancing with a guy anymore and how I should dance with him?

Im going to a party with a close friend , lets say we are dancing and making out. What if i dont feel like it anymore , what is a good way to show him i dont want to continue without making it awkward? And lets say we are...

Mayoosh

Xper 4 Age: 27

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy constantly cancel plans or try to make last minute plans?

So i've tried the internet dating thing and was talking to a guy who was nice. He planned that we meet each other last Satuday and then cancelled. So I actually met him last wk bc we did a meet and great and he was nice...

tigergirl1987

Xper 4 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

7 months and still no date? Im old fashion and i would never ask a guy out but i actually did invite him on several occasions to activities.

Shy guys are complicated. They show clear signs of liking you but dont have the courage of asking you out. Im old fashion and i would never ask a guy out but i actually did invite him on several occasions to activities...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Does he have feelings for me, or am I just a bootycall/a girl to talk to? Need to know because I want to date other people?

So i have this weird relationship with this guy, i dont know what we are or what we are doing, but personally i would say we just know eacother, and thats it. I did have feeling for him to being with but because of his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

The myth of nice guys and dating?

Let me just say that i am nice , iam a nice person who is capable of getting angry and acting like an ass but for the most part i am nice , however i dont think its why i only had 1 girlfriend so far , i keepp reading...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Does she like me? Is she shy? Why would you stare or glance at a guy and also smile when you see him or when you both make eye contact?

I...

Aypersaud

Xper 4 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested in me or what?

there's this guy in my class. We are good friends but i never looked at him in a special way. He keeps making eye contact with me and doesn't look away he just smiles. Moslty he touches my neck and squizzes it. My hair my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How long should I wait to keep in touch with a guy I liked but I have met almost 3 weeks ago?

I do not want to sound I am desesperate, stalker or pushy cause I dont want to scare him away and guys do not like women like that especially when they are grown up and know what they want. We just had exchanged text...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Why does my ex gf act like she dont care about us no more but telling her friends she still love me but flexing in front of other people why?

Girls, Me and my girl broke up i took her V card but her aunt made her break up with me and she told the principle she dont want me around her but when i first came back to school she try to make me jealous by hugging...

detroit

Xper 4 Age: 29

Other

Is it possible to make a shy guy make the first move?

is it possible to get a shy guy to make the first move or even make him start the first convo if i dont know him , but you go to the same uni? i was told that if guys are shy they get nervous around girl they find...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, when he says this what should I do?

he said "your the one who fucked up ,why should i be the one making the moves" okay but what moves do i make, im soo used to having guys make the moves like i asked him out to the movies and he flipped it on me like i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, "if you want it go and get it" gentlemen give me some good advice?

so i fucked up the relationship because i got blacked out drunk and were trying to make it happen as his motto is "if you want it go get it" rather than "if you love it let it go ,it will be" ..so its been a month since...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is he as interested in me as I am in him, or should I just move on?

It's been a month since this shy guy finally asked me out after a few failed attempts at making a move and prolonging hints that went on for like 6-7 months. He explained that he wasn't the type to make a move as he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls or guys? can you explain this girls behaviour for me please?

ok so im confused about how my close girl friend feels about me, Sometimes when were out she will be really interested in talking to and spending time with me but then often she just seems uniterested in me and speaks to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Confessing to a guy: Mistake or a good step *I dont regret it cause good things have been happening. I guess?

So im 17 and this guy who is my neighbor (like 2 houses away) is 20. I've liked him since I was 6 and one day I found him on Facebook and I told him in 10 lines that I was crushing on him. :P This happened a month ago....

Lalalandd

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

WTF are we? I have no idea what him and I are doing?

I dont get what we are doing or what kind of relationship we even have and i dont know how to feel about it. So i have know about him(A) for years because he is the best friends of the guy(B) my bestfriend was friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

DOES HE REALLY THE GUY HE SAYS HE IS? He acts so different one day and the other just the opposite I can't understand?

First of all sometimes he does some things that really makes me think he truly loves me(always giving little surprises, never letting me go until my parents come or a taxi comes(we are 17), always protecting me always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, he is saying goodbye or I need some space?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Met a guy and we hit it off - SO DRAWN TO EACH OTHER! But, he kept me at a distance, letting me in then backing away, for 2 months now. We just talked, until Saturday night. We bumped

Met a guy and we hit it off - SO DRAWN TO EACH OTHER! But, he kept me at a distance, letting me in then backing away, for 2 months now. We just talked, until Saturday night. We bumped into each other and he really wanted to make sure I got home safe. He brought me to his place for the night, then took me home in the morning. We never had sex or even kissed, but he chose to cuddle me. And, he chose to kiss my cheek goodbye, which he doesn't do with just friends. Then, Monday, I get this email from him...

I think I'll explain my romantic reticence a bit just so everything is in the clear.

My ex has been in school in boston for the past two school years; we were doing long-distance until the fall when we decided to break it off. Lately she's been telling me that she's applying for jobs in SF (along with Portland and Seattle), and we hung out when I was in Boston a couple of weeks ago. I don't really know what's going to happen with that situation to be honest, there were problems that I'm not sure her being here would solve, even though I don't know if she is actually coming back at this point. In some ways it feels like she is toying with me, although she most likely just doesn't know what she wants either.

Anyway, this is all probably TMI, but I just wanted to explain why things didn't progress yesterday or why I might come off as cool or aloof (well, more so than normal). I just thought it would be really unfair to you while I the other situation is still developing (even though it really took a lot of will power with you there so dreamlike). When we first started talking she was pretty much dead-set on staying in boston, so I felt it might be time to move on more seriously. I guess now I dont really know what is up.

I'm really sorry I led you on in any way. I do like you, there's just a big part of me invested in that relationship and person, and while its been chipped away I can't say its not still a big chunk.

Sorry if this comes off as all dramatic, but I guess it has been for me!

So, is he saying goodbye??? I'll not hear from him again???

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Family & Friends

Why does my mom have a problem with anything that involves me growing up?

So my mom responds weird when i say i am going out, she's like where to but it's way she says it like in shock. Hence why i don't go out a much as i get grief for it. When i mention wanting a baby while cuddling my...

MysteriousChick93

Xper 7 Age: 33

Other

Dating and dating NEVER work out for me, I dont get whats wrong with me?

I dont really know what to do about my situation. So basicly i have never dated or been in a relationshi. I have only met one guy that had the looks and the personaity, but i have no idea what we "are" right now. We still...

Anonymous

(30-35)