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Me & this guy hit it off as soon as we met at work Became very strong friends Ended up sleeping together multiple times He found a job in his field an hour away.
We still keep in touch Texting every day, all day & night sometimes
I realized my feelings were stronger & my gut is telling me he feels the same & he’s just scared He told me straight out he was afraid I would hurt him At his new place He video chats & shows me around Still texting everyday
One day we’re talking & Out of the blue he says “Can’t talk long. I have a date tonight” I give him kudos & say “okay I’ll let you go” but he says “it’s okay she’s not here yet We can still talk”
the very next day he does it again “Got another date tonight. She’s on her way over”
I’m trying to be happy/supportive but it kinda hurt. The next morning he ask if I was okay & said I sounded upset
A couple days later, we planned to meet up for his bday The morning of he said I’m awake :) & I said see ya soon. half an hour later he says “hey some people want to take me out for a birthday thing. Let’s meet up later”
I say “okay. Fine. Just let me know”
He says “Don’t be mad”
he didn’t text me later letting me know anything. So I just left it alone
the next week he posts a snap story saying how his favorite show can’t even distract him
I ask what the matter. He says long story tell you later.
The next day he tells me
“You know those dates I’ve been having. Well, she’s in the hospital & I have no way to communicate w/ her. I’ve been trying not to cry for the past 2 days. I’m worried I never felt like this about a girl
But then when I Told him to go see her. He says she told him she doesn’t want him to see her like that.
How would she tell him this if he had no way to communicate with her
Now keep in mind He moved to this new place on the 28th, been on 2 dates (w 2 different girls he said), then this girl (no name was mentioned), & now she’s in the hospital. And this all happened by the 10th.

Be honest, what do you think?

My boyfriend and I have dated for 2 years. We’ve only broken up once, during the time span when we were dating for just a couple of months. He slept with his ex, when he was single and neither one of us thought we’d ever get back together. So when we did, the ex told me everything but regardless I chose to stay with him because I loved him and understood that while I was angry, we were both single at the time. He told me he would never talk to her again. Anyhow it’s been two years since they had the fling, and she’s been following his Instagram page for a long time but never likes anything and he doesn’t follow her back. Out of the blue yesterday, she liked a photo he posted. Not a selfie, or even a picture of himself but a photo of my dads classic car.

I told him it would be cool if he blocked her as she’s caused problems in the past and he said it wouldn’t that I should just move on and that she doesn’t hit him up because he “has nothing good to say to her,” and to not let it bother me. He also said they haven’t talked at all, and that I “got weird as soon as I saw the bitch liked the pic.” Now it might just be me trippin, but I did move out recently and I’m worried she’s gonna try to call him or something. Am I just being paranoid? Or am I worrying for a good reason? My boyfriend got all mad because he felt like I didn’t trust him either, but don’t I have the right to be upset? I understand this was beyond his control her liking it, but she swore she hated him?

Met a guy at work about 3 months ago (Blake). we became fast friends The attraction was there soon after Next week he invited me over to watch his favorite show, we had some drinks, cuddled & fell asleep
We’re both straightforward people & extremely comfortable talking about anything Once we stayed up talking all night about ourselves that ended with us kissing
We both expressed how we’ve been hurt in the past & don’t want relationships Few days later, he got tipsy & called me over He was upset & told me how he thought I would eventually hurt him I set him straight & we fell asleep
We got closer, jokes & flirting of us sleeping together began I’m 25 and virgin; came to realize long ago that life isn’t fairytale but knew I wanted to lose it with someone I cared deeply for & cared as much for me. Blake was that person. I brought it up to him. He asked why him. I told him I liked him pointing out our mutual attraction & us being friends already. He didn’t text me for a few days but acted normal at work, but was more touchy. So I figured, he’s thinking hard about it.
he gave his answer, yes. I went to his house nervous but determined. He was outside sitting & told me to join him. He came straight out & said he was worried how I would be after & if I was sure I didn’t want to wait for someone else. I reiterated that neither one of us wanted a relationship. Long story short. We went for it. He took care of me. No fairytale but no horror story either.
Everything after that changed. We’re touching & flirting with each other all day everyday at work, over text & after work. He began to get protective (especially around our other male coworker), holding my hand, calling me babe. We slept together a few more times. Each time more emotional. He got drunk another night & told me “I’m friend zoned, you friend zoned me”.
Truth, I like him & open to a relationship with him. But I tend to believe people when they say something, respect their decisions. So lay it out to him or not?