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Search Results: attracting jerks
Out of the blue phone conversation, that got me kinda confused. Could use advice?
A while back on my attempt to quit pot (3 weeks sober), I met this really cool chick we we're really attracted to each other and started dating for a while and she was kinda obsessed with me , during our dating period I...
RobuAndrei
Xper 5 Age: 34 When you first meet a potential date, how do you feel about the person?
I think the person should be at least reasonably visually attractive to you, someone you feel comfortable chatting with in a laid back way, the conversation keeps going, and you aren't turned off or repelled by the other...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does going to therapy change your dating habits?
One thing I worked on in therapy was my habit of constantly dating men who treated me like crap. It comes down to having an emotionally abusive dad for all my life. I just finished therapy and was on a dating break for...
Anonymous
(30-35) What was your reaction to this year season of The Bachelor and Juan Pablo?
Bachelor fans... Are you suprised by the outcome? How do you feel about Juan Pablo in general? How did you think things were going to turn out, or wish it had of? Also tell me who you thouught Juan Pablo would fall for....
DivaMonae
Guru Age: 28 Why do people say Men/Women are just "wired" that way?
Being an intellectual I always found it particularly amusing when someone attributes a socially constructed behavioral trait of a person(s) to some strange "wiring". The lack of thought into what their trying to talk...
YoungAthleticOne
Xper 5 Age: 33 What should I do with this really annoying girl?
She's about 24 years old and acts like a kid. She's a nerd like me and we have the same exact classes together. She's hella smart. REALLY smart. I can't tell she likes me a lot but I'm not attracted to her at all. I only...
snowboarder720
Guru Age: 38 I am so confused?
So, I have known this guy for about 4-5 years. We were attracted to each other when we first met, but he was really close friends with my cousin who is notoriously a bit of a jerk. He was afraid that if things didn't work...
Anonymous
(30-35) How long can a man go on without a woman?
I'm a straight man, 28 years old. I'm educated, have a reasonably good job and a car. I'm also above-average in the looks department. I have been involved in only one relationship in my life, which lasted for 6 months...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why he acted like he was in love and became cold out of the blue?
I met this guy almost 3 months ago. I felt immediately drawn to him... He made me feel safe, at home, from the first very moment. You know, I'm very, very sensitive and usually bad guys make me feel off as a first...
PrincessCake
Xper 5 Age: 42 Why do I get hit on by so many creeps/jerks?
When I like walked into one of my classes, there was a whole row of football players in there. "Great" I thought, it's gonna be an easy semester. I avoided eye contact with them and rushed to a seat. They stared. They...
bombdotcom
Xper 4 Age: 32 Shedding some light on women and their "attraction" to jerks. Would you say my theory is correct?
Women require two things in a mate. Physical and mental stimulation. The physical can be found in the "bad" guy. The bad guy is usually tall, good looking, and confident. Things women can find sexy. Now, keep in mind,...
kambo_trick3y
Guru Age: 40 I just can't find a guy with a "personality" I like.
I'm 18 and a girl. I've had only two relationships, my second was one I didn't regret too much aside from me screwing it up and him eventually turning into a jerk. I seem to only attract nice, pansy guys and while I...
Anonymous
(30-35) I feel like guys only like me for my looks?
Please, I'm not trying to be cocky this is a serious question. So I'm in highschool and I don't have too much experience with boys. I've had one relationship and a couple "things". I am a pretty introverted person and can...
Anonymous
(30-35) What's the best way to tell him "No"?
I hate to be the one who has to tell this guy I've known for years that I don't like him in the way he likes me. It's one of those friend zoned moments but I seriously am not attracted to him. I first me him when I was 14...
sammy_31
Guru Age: 34 Do you think she'll even notice if I stop talking to her?
I like talking to this girl and she seems to like talking to me to a certain extent because she is always initiating. One thing that really annoys me is that sometimes she is all quiet with me only. Its random, she'll be...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is it that when you treat a girl like crap she is attracted to you?
It has bothered me for so long, whenever you treat a girl nicely, basically like a princess, she won't give you the time of day but as soon as you become a jerk and ignore her and don't treat them well, she suddenly...
Anonymous
(30-35) Will I ever find someone I connect with?
I've gone out with about 10 different guys in the last 5-6 months. None were really for me. One might of been, but he was a jerk, so obviously he wasn't. The other I realized was just lust. The others, I felt nothing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Attracted: to him or to emotions?
I'm not sure if I'm addicted to the emotions I recieve when I see the guy staring at me,him being nervous around me. all this is kinda exciting,I enjoy his reaction to me ,I enjoy him staring at me. But him as a...
JSanna
Xper 3 Age: 39 What causes assertive women to go from cold and distant to being attracted to a guy all of a sudden?
The girl in question is ultra ambitious and speaks her mind freely. My question is how could she go from what I felt was condescension or dismissive attitudes towards me towards being so sweet and warm? What is the girl...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I talk to this guy or leave him alone?
There is this guy who I caught staring at me and ever since I've been attracted to him. We constantly look at each other and my friends give me a hard time for it. a lot of people say he is a jerk, but when ever I look at...
sk8ergrrl
Xper 5 Age: 28 