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I met this guy in high school about 15 years ago. He was too scared to really date me, because I am taller by about 4 inches, loved to wear heels, and am much hotter than him. He thought his friends might laugh at him. He kept thinking what would they think seeing an ugly dwarf next to a tall, hot, supermodel? He flirted pretty heavily though. Years later he messaged me on Facebook. He apologized for being an idiot and wanted to try things out. We were together off and on for 3 years, and he still ended up being hung up on how I looked next to him. He kept whining about how he wished he could marry me, but he just didn't feel like he was good enough or something.

I got sick of it, moved on to someone else, last time he came onto me in that way I told him that he sucked in bed and relied on his nice penis too much with not enough of anything else. Anyways, it hit home and he left me along for about 2 years. He met a short, very fat, sickly, ugly girl. I'm only a little shallow, but she's outside of my comfort range. He married her 2 years after he met her.

Here's where it gets weird! He started messaging me while they were still newly weds! I just can't comprehend why after 2 years of not speaking. They got married just over a year ago, and he randomly sends a wave, a hi, a how are you doing every couple of months. He's also mentioned that we should hang out. I can't imagine why when he's a newlywed.

We are in the same college now. He saw me today and seemed way too intimate int he way he said hi and hugged me a bit too long twice, and asked me to message him.

Does this seem like normal behavior, or does it seem like unresolved feelings and some sort of hang up? I have lots of male friends, and this seems abnormal.

I'm by no means shallow but when you're friends with someone you expect to do ,"friend things". like travel, spa day , festivals etc. so I brought up the trip to NY we've been talking about since last year then I brought up Europe. Once again she cannot go bc she has no money. what's the point of being friends with someone broke? then we go out to eat , she invites a fellow broke friend who couldnt pay for her dinner. smh