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Hey guys,

This girl was my date to formal dinner last spring and we texted over the summer. At the beginning of the year, she ran up and hugged me.

A couple days later I was a jerk at a party. I got very drunk, yelled at girls for going into my room and stealing alcohol.. and was generally a menace.

I was in a very bad spot around 4am. I thought that this girl I liked was ashamed of me. I drunk texted her that she was important to me, and I desperately wanted to explain my behavior. I told her that I was fond of her and was regretful that I drank so much.

She responded the next day at 4pm, saying that she appreciated my kind words about her, but that the way I acted was not OK, and that she hoped I learned from it.

The next night I see her at a friend's party. We avoid each other. She won't look at me. She and her friends immediately leave.

The following night, she and her friends show up at the townhouse I share with some frat brothers to pre game. weird. It is immensely awkward. I play pong with her friends and she stands 15 feet away, facing away from me.

That night, there is a party we all go to, and I go home with another girl.

The next week, I am at another party and sitting at the dj booth and the girl I like is standing behind me, giving me some weird look. I'm too drunk to make sense of it, and side step her.

I hear from a friend that she's aware that I went home with another girl. She mentioned it very matter-of-factly and didn't seem too bent out of shape about it, but she's not an open book.

fast forward 6 weeks. I haven't even tried to contact her.

I am at my frat house when the cops show up to break up our party. I clear people out and see the girls that "my girl" usually hangs with when they go out. The "huddle" includes her roomies and sister, and they leave with "my girl" nowhere in sight.

I walk around for a few minutes and clear people out. I walk into the kitchen and "my girl" is standing at the counter, sticking out like a sore thumb.

We make eye contact, but it is very strange. I have no idea what she's up to, and break eye contact. I step around her and open the back door, telling everyone to go home. I see now that maybe she was trying to talk to me, but am not sure.

Perhaps she was upset that I did not initiate a conversation, because she then walked out fairly quickly, grasping my bicep with her hand as she passed by my body. I did not realize it was her until she was walking through the door.

A week passes, and I decide that was her way of trying to get me to talk to her. I text her.

I show her a video that my friends and I have made, advertising an upcoming party of mine. She says that my video was incredible and that she had better get an invite, or else!

We flirt more. She sometimes texts me back at 10pm and I won't respond until the next day at 2pm, after practice/class. When this happens she'll take 7+ hrs to respond.

What do you guys think I should do

Ladies, lets say you got pulled over by a cop for speeding, per his duties, he HAD to give you a ticket regardless of the fact that you both were attracted to each other and were both flirting. Even though he gave you a ticket, he asks you out on a date. Would you accept even though he gave you a ticket?

Guys, lets say you got pulled over by a cop for speeding, per her duties, she HAD to give you a ticket regardless of the fact that you both were attracted to each other and were both flirting. Even though she gave you a ticket, she asks you out on a date. Would you accept even though she gave you a ticket?