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my girl is currently brunette but I think it be really hot and look good on her if she went blonde for the summer. she's been brunette for as long is I can remember maybe her whole life and I think it be cool if she was blonde for a change , she has a nice body and I think she could really pull off the blonde look. and her sister and best friend is already blonde so she'd fit rate in. not sure if sister is naturally blonde or if she died hair at some point but might be natural blonde odd there not same colour.

but not sure how to go about suggesting this to her? is she going to be offended and think I don't like her for who she is? or think I have a secret thing for blondes not brunettes like she is

so this is a really weird situation I meet these girls at local bar and don't know them very well but have talked to them a few times. there was this one I was really into but she was into me one day then not the next and nothing really happened. so we never really dated.
but here is where things start to get weird she also has another girl friend who is like her best friend from what I've heard. on Friday night I meet her best friend ( wasn't planned or anything just randomly happened ) at bar and we partied together but not entire night only for parts , she and another gf did however do a shot together at bar and she was rate up close to me and we were touching and some other people saw us who knows her and was very surprised to see us together , the first girl I meet wasn't at the bar that night. I talked to this girl at fast food place later on at night and mentioned I know other girl she was friends with but she didn't seem to know I knew her to.
anyways I find its all getting really weird as I know these girls are like best friends and its not clear if either actually want to date me or if were just friends. so what would you think if guy you meet and might of been interested in dating was suddenly out partying with your best friend?

She's a foreign student from Ukraine. I am Argentinian and she's on exchange here for like 6 months. I got close to her, she seems to have barely no friends at all in the university and I talked to her since she was alone. I talked to her for half an hour once two weeks ago, 30 minutes last week and like an hour today, and in the end I decided to ask her out... to what she said no. I asked her why and since she didn't know how to say it I ended up telling her I was talking hanging out as friends, to what she said "Well, we could meet and talk here at the university" and then she asked to me which was my Facebook .

In my view, I have as cons she is 26 years old and I'm 20, she may think we have just met and obviously she may be afraid I could be a bad guy or something, and lastly I'm not sure what to say about my phisical appearence, I'm not super cute but I'm definitely not ugly. Though I know it depends on her... I'm shy and a little insecure of myself. Whatever.

As pros, I see she smiled all the time she was with me, she put her feet as you see only in movies when a girl likes a guy, I think she was the one trying to make me talk to her since I was standing in a place with my friends and she passed by 4 times until I asked her if she was looking for her class and that started the conversation... and we talked like for an hour, though she told me she had like 3 hours of free time.

I am getting really discouraged. My successes are zero in such a long time that my security is decreasing fast... Though, objectivelly speaking, I think she could have doubts of what kind of person I am, I know in her country there are lots of crimes commited this way. She seems a really kind person but I need a success. Being rejected hurts, and even more since I the my success rate tends to be zero.

Anyway, I really want to know what you people think about this girl and me and what should I do, and how should I feel about myself.

Thanks for reading, girls an guys!

I'm not asking if you'd ever compete on the show, but would you ever be willing to go on the show as the one being competed for. That is have 25 really hot girls/guys (whatever your preference) vying for your affections with the network paying for fantastic dates. You'd still be forced to choose, you'd be getting engaged in a very short time frame, and everything will be on international tv.

While I see the appeal, I don't think I ever would, the drama would be too much.

This is saying nothing of the post show break up rate.