Search Results: do i get her a valentine''s day gift

your SO says:
hey I am pregnant and i want a car, I have to walk 1 hour to work.
your co workers say, get her a 800$ tablet for work.

SO: hey I am really sick and I don't know what is wrong, I don't have any allergies because the allergist did two tests and says there's nothing wrong. I need to see an ENT doctor.
your co workers say, she is lying and there is nothing wrong with her, she is just a drama queen.

SO: hey I really like myrtle beach and have always wanted to go and I would love to go with you.
your co workers say: myrtle beach is an awful place, no matter what don't go with your wife.

SO: hey I have so much trouble ordering this massage stick on amazon, I really want one. Can you get me one?
your co workers say: don't buy her anything for valentines day or your anniversary or her birthday or for mothers day. Just go and spend tons of money on yourself.

1. Pregnant wife falls off bike while paddling 1 hour to work and it's freezing out with pouring rain.
2. Pregnant wife has bad liver and it's inflamed along with high bile levels.
3. Wife has to go to myrtle beach all by herself with tons of random guys hitting on her.
4. Wife doesn't get a massage stick but she does buy husband star wars shirts, star wars drinking glasses and chocolate & wine along with going to husband's favorite restaurant and making husband a gift that's both meaningful and thoughtful while wife gets NOTHING.

then husband says stuff like "I always try to make you happy but you are not ever happy what is the hell wrong with you?"

If not, does that make you feel insecure? If so, is it a nice memory or would you prefer you hadn't received it (because the relationship didn't end well,...)? Do you think it's a big deal?

i am not counting the ones where you get them from everyone, like its Halloween or something.