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We are not official, but kind of are. I'm her first! She even liked me first. We are long distancing right now.

Known 8+ months in person, been 'together', 1 month in person, then 3 long distance. The first time I left she cried at the airport... First time we were separated we emailed nearly every day. (She hates talking on the phone, she gets anxiety). She hates long distance communication, too. Doesn't even have a FB account (I love that!). She's introvert and super shy. She says she feels pressure/energy drain to keep in touch long distance. (To anyone)

This is the 2nd time I haven't heard her in a while. This time... tomorrow will be the 10th day in a row... She hates long distance communication, she RARELY even keep in touch with her best friends. She is not much of a long distance talker. I know she isn't making this up, cuz when we were just friends, she told this to me. She even warned me to not expect her to be amazing at 'keeping in touch" when we go long distance. (She's weird! I love it!) So she gets a little extra 'leeway'. b-but... It only takes seconds to email "Just saying hi".

About 2 weeks into our long distance, she realizes something I did in the past hurt her a lot. She had to let it sink in. Around this time I think she started communicating less. Only about a month later, she confessed to me that something I did a long time ago hurt her big time. She blames herself for her pain, too.

I asked for forgiveness and she said "of course!", she said 'nothing's changed". This confession happened 1month ago. Last time we spoke it seemed good. She said she was gonna send me a surprise in the mail. She sent me an "I miss you" Emoticon while saying goodbye in the chat.

Are there any other girls like her? Is it understandable for me to consider ending it?(This hurts) Would you be hurt, too? What's happening? She is SUPER shy IRL, she isn't a flirter at all. In fact, she's a 'good girl". She is super beautiful, too, so guys would probably try.

All of my life that I wasted on you
All of this time I was trapped, you had me good
You pulled me in with a smile

All of the lies that you kept on making
All of this time that you kept on faking
I, I should have known all the while

That you’re a liar
You keep misleading me
Liar
Why you keep cheating me?
Liar
You keep on taking me higher
Only to bring me back down

No way that you’re serious, serious
No way this is true, true
You leave me delirious, lirious
Then you blame it on anyone but you

No way that I’m staying here, staying here
This has gone on too long, long
Maybe you’ll miss me when I’m gone

All of this time, didn’t heed the warnings
The danger signs I just kept ignoring them
But still it cut like a knife

You’ve gone too far to receive forgiveness
I’ve had enough of your monkey business now
So just get out of my life

Cause you’re a liar
You keep misleading me
Liar
Why you keep cheating me?
Liar
You keep on taking me higher
Only to bring me back down

No way that you’re serious, serious
No way this is true, true
You leave me delirious, lirious
Then you blame it on anyone but you

No way that I’m staying here, staying here
This has gone on too long, long
Maybe you’ll miss me when I’m gone

All the while
Only smiling to deceive me
All this time
You’ve been leading me astray

Ain’t no crime
Standing up for yourself so
Now it’s time to go away
Cause you’re a liar

You keep misleading me
Liar
Why you keep cheating me?
Liar
You keep on taking me higher
Only to bring me back down

No way that you’re serious, serious
No way this is true, true
You leave me delirious, lirious
Then you blame it on anyone but you

No way that I’m staying here, staying here
This has gone on too long, long
Maybe you’ll miss me when I’m gone

I dated this girl on and off for almost two years before we got into a long term relationship. We kept breaking up because she was mormon.
I gave her church a chance and I didn't like it, and she said she would give our relationship a chance. And we had a wonderful and loving relationship for a while.
But she had decided for some reason to go on a mission, and I asked if she'd marry me before she left. She said she would but wouldn't formally accept it.
During her mission, she sent me a letter ending things and I had no way of contacting her while she was gone.
When she came back, I ran into her and I wanted to know why she did what she did. She said she couldn't accept our relationship and blamed our relationship failing on me. She kept changing what she was say and was inconsistent before walking off.

A few month later, I found out she got married. It tore me apart, but I figured this was the way things needed to be. So I moved on, even though I had the unfortunate accident of driving past her wedding while I was on a job.

It's been almost a year, and I have her blocked on everything. Because she used to stalk me when we were broken up.

Yesterday, I got a message from her. Asking if I would give her a chance to talk because she wanted to fix things and talk.
Today, I did some research. All I know as of right now is her and her husband got divorced. I don't know how long ago.

Do I hear what she has to say? She sent me a message this afternoon asking for forgiveness and saying she wants to move past what happened.

Do you think there will ultimately be a time beyond bodily death that the unrighteous will be judged for their evil deeds committed?

If you hope against this, on what grounds would you wish people didn't get judgment for their evil?

Please share your current stance on cosmic justice and how shocked would you be if you learnt your view was wrong?

Also, please share if you think forgiveness plays any role in the afterlife!