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Okay so, me and my boyfriend were together for about 2 months- not long but we talked for a while and we got really close.. He began hanging out with his best friend again and once he did, shit went down. His best friend's girlfriend is friends with me and he absolutely hates it. They hate each other more than you could ever imagine. So one day, we had been planning to hangout that day for about 2 weeks and earlier in the day, he told me that he couldn't hangout. Automatically I knew he was going to a party because his best friend was going to it and they had a sleepover the night before and I guess I was fine with it. So then I'm home all night watching sad netflix movies and crying about them then I fell asleep at like 8pm. Then I woke up around 11pm and his best friends girlfriend called me and told me he asked a girl to hook up. So I called and asked and he obviously denied it and thats where the fighting ever started. I put that behind me and things were still a bit shaky and this absolutely beautiful girl popped up on his best friends list. So, I just let it go because I wanted things to work. So then, the next week we went to the movies. We didn't even kiss when I got there and we didn't even talk much. But then randomly during the movie, he was being weird and was like "Wanna kiss?" like no you don't ask me if you wanna kiss, just kiss me. So I turned to him and gave him a peck and then turned away and he was heated but whatever. Then the next day he was talking to his other best friends girlfriend that I've known for four years and he told her things were probably gonna end soon. So I tried naming things work but he just didn't know what he wanted, so I ended it. Four days after, he hung out with that snap chat girl. There I was, miserable, I didn't tell anybody. Since then, I told my family and it's just been weird I don't know. Then he told me we just need a break. And I have been giving him space. Then I told him I missed up and he said he was confused…….. HELP

My ex and I were together for 9 months. There was an instant connection and in a month or less he asked me to be his girlfriend. Our relationship was great, we traveled, laughed all the time, met each other's friends and family- he became my best friend. Then towards our final two months together I started feeling like I didn't deserve him- like he was too good to be true. I started doing whatever to accommodate him. That was followed by feeling to unattractive to be with him. One day I even asked him to break up with me while we were on a romantic vacation.

The week before last I told him I wouldn't be coming over anymore. He was extremely confused. I was feeling very emotional and down. I said that only because I wanted more attention from him. We took a little space over the weekend. Then on Monday morning he told me how unhappy I seemed to be and that he thought it was because he wasn't giving me what I needed. He asked for some time to think. A few days later he broke up with me in tears.

I tried explaining how I feel was me not him and I apologized for communicating my feelings in such a reckless, hurtful way. I assures him I was happy with him. When I met to pick up my things I told him I had made an appointment to see a therapist and he was happy to hear I was getting help but he still said he couldn't deal with everything but would like to be friends.

I want him back. Is there a chance or have I burned that bridge?

My guy friend and I are both taken and we talk openly about our respective relationships. We had a fight last week and weren't speaking but we had an all day school event today together. He texted me last night to say he didn't need a ride from me and that was the most we'd talked in days.

Normally we are always staring at each other but since the fight we hadn't made eye contact. I looked at him today when I saw that he'd made granola for me, which he knows I love, so I knew that was his apology.

Then all day he was winking, smiling, staring, making faces and joking with me. We shared a bottle of water at lunch and started hashing out our problems. Later we were passing notes and he was bumping into me and teasing me about walking next to him. We were sitting pressed against each other, like before our current fight. He told me he ditched me after a previous fight because he thought I was too mad at him to want to see him so he was giving me a break from him, some space he said. I didn't understand until then. I thought he was just being a jerk.

Before we went home he was calling me sweetie and darling and assumed I was watching his stuff. Then I said we'd talk on the bus ride home. He teased me about assuming he'd sit with me but we did and he said we could cuddle and put his arm around me. Then we had a great talk and sorted all our stuff out. The sun was behind him so I could actually see his irises. They're deep brown. I told him this and he asked me what color his eyes are. I said so dark brown that you can barely see the pupils. He agreed and said his gf was dumb and didn't know what color they were. They've been together almost eighteen months.

What's going on here? What's he want with me?