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Hey, I'm 17 years old and a junior in high school. I am on the lacrosse team and I have had a thing for my coach since I started attending the school. He and I have a very close relationship and I wonder if he feels the same way. He's very touchy (not in like a weird way), i will like show him something on my phone and he always feels the need to touch my entire hand unncessarily for a little while he is looking at a picture on my phone or something and he is always trying to make me laugh and impress me. Whenever he is telling a story to the entire team he is only making eye contact with me as if I am the only one there. He likes to joke around with me a lot and sort of make fun of like my music taste and stuff but its so cute and funny when he does it. He has called me pretty before and he gives compliments about my achievements a lot. He also doesn't work at the school, he is just a coach and sometimes he will show up to my lunch when he has like no reason to be there. Considering that he is my coach, I wouldn't want to risk him losing his job so I don't do anything about it, also he is a good Christian guy and im a good christian girl and we wouldn't do anything anyways. I keep it very lowkey like one time we were riding in this golf cart together when we were on this school's campus and i squeezed right next to him and our legs were touching the entire ride. i know its so lame but its a big deal for me since we can't do anything. I really feel like the feeling is mutual but i dont know, do all guys act like this?
Is it normal to be attracted to a 17 year old girl as a 26 year old? If he is attracted to me, do you think he is ashamed of it? Do you all think that he is into me?

I have a crush on my RA. She lives next door to me. And I told one of my friends I liked her when we started college in August. Well she liked one of my friends but my friend didn't feel the same way so I told the RA not to worry about her. So she left it alone. So one day she text me and was like " is it true you said I was your bae in the beginning of the semester " I said yea and she said it was sweet so I started acting slightly weird. So we went to Starbucks and her demenior completely changed. I texted her and I told her her attitude was ridiculous and I believe I hurt her feelings but she was talking behind my back. But I apologized. But when we went to Starbucks she acted so weird and awkward. She had a phone call and told the person she was talking to that i was her friend but then she immediately changed and said my resident. She intentionally did all that knowing I would feel a way about it. Now I don't know what to do. She's still my RA and I have no idea what to feel about it.