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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We started talking 5 months before that. [(He broke up with me after a month because I wouldn't sleep with him. But we got back together.)((I waited for marriage with my exhusband and I view sex differently than others do. He was very abusive that is why we are no longer together.))] Anyway, he broke up with me again in November saying that he couldn't deal with me having a child.

He slept with a couple people (including a pretty ex) texting more. We got back together after about three weeks of us being broken up even though we were around each other all the time.
I got let go and I saw that he texted a girl from work the day after I got fired. I confronted him about it. He said he didn't know why he texted her that it seemed like something to do because he had to ask about his schedule. But that it wouldn't have went anywhere. I asked if he wanted an open relationship but he said no because he wouldn't want me doing the same. I've seen him texting and talking to two other ones.
I asked him what he was doing. If he really wanted a relationship with someone else or what. He said it was just talking and running into each other at work. Said I was who he loved and what he wanted. That it was just conversation that he did it for excitement.
I asked him if I wanted him to join a dating app if he would for me. He asked why? I told him if it was just conversation and flirting. He could do that. He said he deleted stuff like that a long time ago and that he didn't need them. So I asked if "the endgame really was to sleep with her." (Because that to me sounds like he actually likes this person and really wants to persue her.) He told me the endgame was to be 89 sleeping with me.
But I asked him once more before work if he actually wanted to have sex with her. If it went that far if he would not. He said "What do you want me to say?" Then he replied "Yes. I would fuck her. And then I'd leave her alone. And she'd leave me alone."

I am from an Asian family but we have been living in Europe for a long time. My boyfriend is european and has a slightly different culture to me. I love my boyfriend cause he makes me so happy and he has been there for me during the really hard times while my parents just ignored me. I also love my parents cause without them moving here i would have never met my boyfriend and they raised me. They do so much for me but lately we just have different opinions about everything which affects my depression too.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 years now, so he asked me to move in together with him. I honestly loved the idea especially cause we are discussing about marrying someday and would be nice to see if we are able to live together for like a few months to a year before we decide if we want to get married. I feel like it would really test our relationship cause we have been in a distance relationship for like 4 years now.

However my family isn't happy with it cause they are very worried about their reputation in the Asian community around here. My father has many friends whose children are getting married now and my parents don't even like my boyfriend cause he isn't an engineer or a doctor and he isn't Asian. They want a husband for me who can take care of me and have a high status in the community so that they can show off just like the way they did with me. They mean well in what they have been brought up with but my perspective has changed cause i am a lot more open minded and my boyfriend is a forensic scientist and currently im studying clinical psychology so i can't take time off to get married within a few years anyway.

That's why I am so confused in what to do? I really want to move in and try it out with my boyfriend but i don't want my parents to just cut me out of their lives because of this. Plus I know i can't be in the middle and have to choose one or the other some day.