Search Results: hook up with someone else

I need help... should I tell him he needs to make a decision about me?

We met through mutual friends 5 months ago and have been in contact ever since. I live across country, but I'm moving to his state this month. We hooked up once about 3 months ago. I liked him so much and thought we were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can someone offer input on my situation so that I can process it a little better and move the heck on?

I recently hooked up with a guy that has been trying to get with me for a couple years now. I assume he was attracted to me otherwise why would he bother. I never showed interest back and yet he still tried. Fast forward...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I continue to pursue her?

I've been going to school with this girl for 6 years now (In Ireland we have 6 years in secondary school from age 13-18) and I have always kinda had a thing for her. It wasn't a constant thing, but every year I seemed to...

benmate

Xper 4 Age: 26

I have a girlfriend, but I think I'm falling for someone else?

I am currently in a long distance relationship, which started around a couple of years ago. We meet often, almost at the end of every term, as we live in different countries and it's always incredible to be with her. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I move forward with her and some intimacy advice?

I really want to be more sexual with my girlfriend without actually having vaginal intercourse or anything like that. It has been a year now and we haven't really hooked up or anything because she's afraid to do something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys are the biggest culprits in head games?

Honestly I just wanted to have sex with him, we had a fight and he wasn't talking to me anymore so I called him a few times. I was the one who did suggest breaking up now that I thought of it but i changed my mind. He...

azzntittiz

Guru Age: 38

Why do people say they want more, and change their mind, or lie in the first place?

I've been single for a while now. I guess I feel like when someone will come around who I can see myself with, I'll do my best, until then I'm free to enjoy life and sex with different partners. Anyways, there's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not sure what I'm supposed to move on?

I met this guy when he came over (he's a foreigner) for an internship and i brought him around my country for a couple of days and we spent 3-4 days together consecutively. He'd offer to buy me dinner and always got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy keeps sending me mixed signals?

So last year this younger guy from my past contacted me on IG to say he had always been interested in me, etc. He is 12 years younger than me so I was a bit hesitant at first but we ended up really connecting and went...

Sadie7373

Xper 4 Age: 52

Society & Politics

How do I get over the stigma from being a natural blonde?

I'm a natural blonde. I used to have platinum blonde hair growing up, now it has darkened to a darker blonde but still quite light. It's interesting because both my parents and most of my family have dark hair. Only me...

TsundereMatrix

Guru Age: 33

RANT TIME? seriously got screwed over?

Okay so here goes, for the purpose of privacy ill call the guy "David" David was a very shy guy, I approached him on snapchat and from there we talking for days We met up and at the cinema, of course we made out, and...

Elisa13

Xper 6 Age: 28

How do I get him to want me back?

I met this frat boy at a party once and we hooked up but I didn't sleep with him. We partied and couple more times together, talked for about a month before he took me as a date to a frat formal which is the first time I...

mystery18

Xper 4 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

I guy I was really into stopped contacting me and I feel like its my fault. How can I fix things?

I started dating this guy my sister and boyfriend hooked me up with a few months ago. This guy is a longtime friend of theirs so I trusted that they were setting me up with a good guy. My sister explained that he was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you forgive your S/O if they hooked up with someone else when they thought you were dead?

I know SarcasticBella asked a similar question, but hers revolved around remarriage. Suppose it didn't go that far though. Here's the scenario: 1. You're knocked out of the sky / abducted by terrorists /...

ObscuredBeyond

Guru Age: 43

Why I Gave Up Online Dating

We live in an age of security and safety that has somehow made our world more paranoid and schizophrenic than ever before. The access of instant information at our fingertips has also somehow increased our uncertainty...

Chief16

Editor Age: 33

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Military Girl or girl that lives closer (Still both long distance)?

So hooked up with this military chick, she leaves, we keep in contact and I fell for her, and we talk about how we could make it work and all this stuff. We're not official but we were gonna be when she came home. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Which is better, being in an online relationship, long distance relationship as to the real deal?

I have noticed that people these days use social media apps to hook up for online relationship, long distance relationships as to the real deal having someone in your country and meeting them face to face. Why is it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Potentially interested or trying to hook up (He's showing signs for both)?

I met a guy off of Bumble 2 months ago. We ended up talking 24/7, had the same interests, he initiated about 80% of the time and was the one asking when he could see me again after each date. The first two dates were...

Anonymous

(36-45)