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HELP. Someone please explain what's going on? I care about my boyfriend A LOT but I also desire another man?

Let me start by saying how upset I am... I feel like my emotions are so sporadic that I can't think straight. I'm 20. I've been with a man for 4 months who is 28. All summer we spent everyday together... I really truly...
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Guys, do you ever find yourself attracted to girls who are 20 years younger?

I have a terrible crush on a man who is twice my age (I'm 18), and while I'm not sure if I would ever pursue a long term relationship with him, I can't help but get the feeling that he's attracted to me. He's very kind to...
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How do I abandon this ship-wreck of a 'she has a boyfriend' situation?

I met this girl at college a while back and we hit it off immediately. I don't know how it happened- but gradually she and I got closer and closer. Eventually we'd watch movies or hang out late and she'd always sleep on...
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How many times would you say you've been "in love"?

I want to say 3, but I think I may have only been in love with one... my childhood friend. As for my ex, I loved him, but I dont think I was in love with him. Then there's this other guy, but maybe it was just infatuation.
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What Is (True) Love?

True love begins when the infatuation stage (which is often confused with love) has ended. The first several months that you spend together, everything about your partner seems perfect. You are head over heels for this...
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This girl i like and care about, am i in love with her?

So there's a girl that i like. I met her over two years ago in high school. We've graduated and she's moving on to univesity while i'm on a victory lap in high school. We were school friends since i met her and really...
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Does anyone know what love is?

Please dont type the lyrics to that one song. Anyways. What is love? Is love real or a figment of our imagination? Is it something we can receive? Or is it an emotion that we yearned but can't achieve due to obstacles we...
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Are these feelings signs of infatuation (or immaturity) or potentially "real love"?

It's been 2 months since our first date & a little over a month since he asked me to be his girlfriend. I've only had 1 serious boyfriend & I can already tell that this one is WAY different & better than my ex. We go for...
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Over the course of your adult life, have you spent more of your time single or more of it being in relationships?

I spent most of my adult life to date single. Have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and this is my longest (and only really serious) relationship to date. (Thought I was in love once before but that was just...
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I spent most of my adult life to date single. Have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and this is my longest (and only really serious) relationship to date. (Thought I was in Show More
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Infatuation, Obsession, or Love?

(Sorry if this question is kinda messed up, thid is my first timebposting on this site) There's this girl I liked, I can't tell if I still like her though. It's been almost 2 (1 year and  7 months) years without seeing...
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Sudden attraction someone- what is the possible cause?

I am a 22 year old girl, in last semester of my graduation. I'm currently single, and I usually prefer older guys. I am into men older than me since the time I was 11. Anyway, cutting long story short. I have had crushes...
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When did you have your first "real" relationship (with definitions)?

This is how I classify them: Psudo-relationships (false relationships): "relationships" that are mostly dictated by infatuation and taper off very quickly. You will have a surge of emotion and then it becomes stale....
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At 19, is there hope left after a relationship with 'The One' is over?

I loved him. I wasn't in love with him. I was past the infatuation faze. He was crazy about me. He said he thought about me 24/7 and he gave me everthing and he did so much for me. But, it just didn't work out. Will I...
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Love too soon? When did you start to love them?

Can you fall in love too soon... I've know this guy on and off for 6 years and we've been dating a little over a month and I've never been as comfortable with any other guy I've ever dated... I feel whole... right. When...
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How do you tell the difference if you are in love or infatuated?

How do you know that you are in love and not just infatuated with someone? I think I love my best friend but I have heard so many things that it might just be infatuation how do you tell the difference?
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Any honest advice out there?

Hello, I've been in a rough spot for awhile now. I met the guy of my dreams in 7th grade, it wasn't until HS that he showed interest in me. When he did we began flirting, texting, going on dates & always had the best...
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Shouldn't Harry Potter have ended up with Cho Chang or Hermione Granger?

MAJOR SPOILERS!!!  PLEASE GO BY THE BOOKS NOT THE FILMS (The later ones missed out several parts) Reasoning being: Cho Chang - his stomach always backflipped, he always felt nervous and got butterflies with Cho Chang....
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MAJOR SPOILERS!!!  PLEASE GO BY THE BOOKS NOT THE FILMS (The later ones missed out several parts) Reasoning being: Cho Chang - his stomach always backflipped, he always felt nervous Show More
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Girls, how to stop being infatuated with this girl?

I really really cannot beleive im writing this, but this particular woman has gotten a grip of me. The worst thing is she's a superior and dating etc is a no go. I've gradually become I think infatuated with her for a few...
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How to get over jealousy/infatuation?

So I recently stopped seeing a guy after months because we wanted different things at the time I thought I was in love with him, but I don't know if I am or if I'm just infatuated, we were seeing each other for about 4...
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