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So just some background information, I’m 22 now and my dad is around 65-68. He also had stokes around 5 years ago thats left him somewhat dependent on us to take care of him among other health issues. Before the strokes though, when I was a teenager, there were times were he did stare at my body a little too intensely along with a family friend that was there as well. That was partially because I was wearing a tight fitted shirt but I wasn’t expecting them to be there. Growing up as well as now, he comments on my weight and mostly says I’m too fat. Only a couple of times when I did lose some weight, he said I’ve gotten skinner which I didn’t really care for.

Recently though, I noticed that he stares at my chest longer than normal for when I’m trying to help him get up from his wheelchair even though I’m not wearing a low cut/tight shirt. At first I disregarded it but now it’s happening almost every time I help. He also stares at the rest of my body sometimes when I’m walking by but doesn’t say anything. Today though, he was trying to look through the crack of my wardrobe door to stare at me while I was changing. I’m not sure if he knew I was changing then or what (I wasn’t naked then either, I still had my clothes on), but it made me really uncomfortable that he still glanced that way regardless besides keep on walking. I’m not sure who to really talk to about this and afraid that I’m assuming incorrectly about his character once I do tell someone. What do you guys think?

I have a huge crush on this guy who owns a cafe. We always flirt when we interact and it gets sexual, especially when he is with other guys.

Examples of his recent behaviour include;

- always staring at me, even when I’m not looking at him but I can see him in the corner of my eye.
- he winks at me

-when masks became mandatory he told me I look sexy because it makes my eyes stand out.
- he made me remove my mask for a few seconds, stared at my face and told me I could put it back on.

- he has given me advice on legal problems I’m having. When he was talking to me he stood extremely close and was staring deep into my eyes.

- genuinely looked concerned when I told him about the situations I’m in.

- he complimented my hair colour saying it suits me because it makes my blue eyes stand out even more. He even said to his friend “look at the tone of her hair”

- when he left he smiled at me and didn’t took his eyes off me as he climbed the stairs and was out of sight.

- seems to get jealous and accused me of fancying a security guard. When I said I didn’t fancy him, he said it was bullshit.

-keeps asking if I have a boyfriend yet.

- pulled me in for a hug, he put his hand on my head and pushed it towards his shoulder/chest area and then quickly realised he shouldn’t have done it because of covid.

- when we are on our own he sings along or whistles to the music in the back ground