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My coworker acts really weird with me. He's about 10 years younger and he can never just have a normal conversation with me. Sometimes he's nice/normal and then, out of nowhere, he'll launch into something passive-aggressive like saying "Thanks a LOT" sarcastically for no reason. But then he'll go out of his way to do things for me and act really nervous/awkward around me in general.

I don't know if this is his way of flirting or if he actually doesn't like me?

I have to mention that he is way out of my league, lookswise. He's an actual model, whereas I'm probably about a 7/10 on a good day.

Im sure he gets noticed all the time, but I definitely made it clear that I found him attractive. We work together (don't tell me not to date coworkers), and I started saying hi to him and smiling at him. And staring, because he's so freaking beautiful, like a painting or something.

He always stares back at me. One time he just held my gaze with this smirk on his face, and sometimes I catch his eye and he'll look away and then look back at me again. When I talk to him, he's super nice and always seems curious about me and what I like to do. But he seems a little nervous (he might just be shy in general though) and it's always so awkward because I'm nervous too.

There have been a few times where I'm a little confused about it all, because he sometimes seems not to really go out of his way to talk to me: like if we happen to be in the same place he talks to me and asks questions, but he never really seems to seek me out for conversation. Also I sit right by the elevators and he never says goodbye or looks at me before he leaves.

Also, one time we were both getting coffee at the same time and he abruptly cut the conversation short and walked away, without saying anything.

im so curious about him that I've been paying attention to his body language, and I noticed that when I come into a room that he's in and start talking to him, he always walks towards me and faces me directly, and has his foot pointed towards me which (I majored in psych) I always took to mean that someone is interested.

Do you think hunk he is?

I know he has a girlfriend, and I've been spying on them on Instagram (everyone does it, don't lie) and I noticed it seems serious and he follows her mother and likes all of her mothers posts... which I respect so I haven't done anything about the fact that I like him. I believe they've been dating for about a year or so.

The thing that's throwing me off is that he stares at me, smiles at me, and seems nervous when we talk. I can sense it - he kind of gets a shortness of breath and seems really intense kind of with the questions. Like when we talk, I'll mention something offhandedly that I did over the weekend and he'll ask me if I'm interested in whatever that thing is - for example, "oh are you into that kind of food?" I've seen him staring a lot when I happen to look up, but when I see him he usually looks away but sometimes he just holds the stare. Occasionally he'll smile.

I know he has a girlfriend which I respect so I haven't done anything about it. I believe they've been dating for about a year or so. The thing that's throwing me off is that he stares at me, smiles at me, and seems nervous when we talk. I can sense it - he kind of gets a shortness of breath and seems really intense kind of with the questions. Like when we talk, I'll mention something offhandedly that I did over the weekend and he'll ask me if I'm interested in whatever that thing is - for example, "oh are you into that kind of food?" I've seen him staring a lot when I happen to look up, but when I see him he usually looks away but sometimes he just holds the stare. Occasionally he'll smile.

What is his deal?