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What does it mean when a married man says he's in an "open relationship". I mean I kind of got it but I don't completely understand it I guess. On our second outing he said he'd love me to meet his wife. He lavished me with compliments and dropped lots of hints he wanted to be in my future. He'd show me off to strangers and made me feel I can accomplish anything. Was starting to write to me in a very romantic and sexual way that I LOVED. Even said things like,"I wish we could have met a couple years ago... and, I'm falling for you hard". The chemistry when we were together was amazing, no doubt. After a couple of outdoor dates we did kiss hard and passionately and things could of gone somewhere else quick if I didn't have my husband in my head. That same moment I realized I couldn't keep seeing him and ended it and told him I'd get in contact when I got my life on track. I have plans to get divorced and join the Air Force and need to focus on that right now. Anyway, I can't stop thinking about him. Did I fall for him or just his words? Could it be the real thing or am I being played for a little arm candy boost. I am 23 and he is 31.

So I've known this guy for 6 years, we met initially it started out with everything that it shouldn't have but an innocent kiss and then we both just stayed friends, and I got a boyfriend he got a girlfriend. Then, I got a new boyfriend and he dumped his girlfriend or something, and he didn't like my boyfriend and I caught him smelling me once, like, my neck. Getting too close, he didn't deny it (did later tho) when I accused him & my mutual friends were really not cool with him hanging around because he was all over me and I never really noticed. Then throughout the years we evolved into more of a best friend relationship so I thought, but he never dated anyone again despite being very attractive. When I got engaged he picked up and moved & recently blew me off when he was supposed to visit. He didn't even call to say "Sorry I can't visit." He was pretty sure that I was going to stop being friends with him, & he was right I was going to tell him to his face potentially depending on the situation, I couldn't end a friendship over the phone, in text or email that was that long & personal. He had yelled at me on my birthday & called me a spiteful b word, then claimed he didn't even know it was my birthday even though I mentioned it in a countdown to him every day that week because I was turning 25 so it was a big deal. He apologized, got drunk the next day sent sexy pics with like here's a present bday girl ;) or something like that. I thought people do stupid things they don't mean when they're drunk but according to studies I read online, people mean that stuff. He told me I was the closest thing to romantic love he ever had, he left the STATE right after I told him I got engaged, asked why didn't -I- the woman pursue him? Like he was so special. Then he blocked my fiance on Facebook but didn't block me, we usually make up by now & I really have forgiven him but the question is -can this be fixed-? If he subconsciously 'loves' me it's kinder to just stop?

Before I say anything else: I don't believe that astrology has EVERYTHING to do with love or personalities, but I do believe they are a good base to start from.

He is an Aries, I am an Aquarius.

I really need some advice on this. Please be honest and please read through all of this.

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I have been single for about a year now, and have had no interest in finding someone to 'fill the void' as one might say it. I was quite content being single.

That is... until this guy came along. Now he has me questioning whether or not I'd like to let him win me over, or just tell him that I have no interest. I won't lie, I never gave off the vibes of "I'm interested". I just tend to be friendly to everyone, so it was no different with this guy.

His interest in me couldn't have been any more obvious. How so? He came into class one day with a beautiful, fully bloomed tulip. Apparently, he had picked it from his garden. When he handed it to me, he told me that he had seen the flower earlier and that it had reminded him of me, but that my beauty was unmatched by anything he had ever seen before. I was shocked to say the least--a little confused as well, but flattered beyond words. I accepted his gift. Well, after multiple declines to go out on a date with him, he wore me down enough to agree to one. To be honest, it wasn't half bad.

He opened doors for me, pulled out (and pushed in) chairs for me, and slow danced with me. I won't lie--he is like a transplant from the Shakespearian times. He is very, VERY traditional. His good-bye to me? A kneel on the ground and a kiss on the hand.

He is also one of the smartest people I've ever met. He is fluent, and self taught, in 5 different languages. It takes him less than 2 months to learn a new language. It's crazy!

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I am confused. I don't know what my feelings are for him yet. Should I give him more chances? Should I not?