Search Results: things to consider in a boyfriend

What up with this stupid rule where you can’t be friends with a girl who has a love interest?

I’ve known this girl for 6 months I consider use to be friends I didn’t have any interest in her as dads as a relationship we hang out drink don’t do anything sexual just talk suddenly she gets a boyfriend. I get this...

Stoner710

Guru Age: 32

Guys, If he hasn't asked for a BJ by now is it an indication that he doesn't care if he gets one or not?

So the guy im dating, who is bascially my boyfriend by now, has never asked for a BJ. I haven't given him one either because im not too big of a fan of it and generally dont like things in my throat/back in my mouth, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does this considered addiction? what would you do?

My boyfriend started smoking weed. He started about 3 months ago but he said he didn’t like it and after that he avoided smoking too much or be around friends who smoke , but you know they were his friends and last time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is the right time to date before marriage?

I've been dating this guy for a year. I love him and our relationship is passionate, fun, and full of life. We have spent the last 4 months with ME staying at his house every night. I have met all his family, including...

Starlight1984

Xper 3 Age: 42

Had a thing for this girl now I noticed she appears to be single?

although not sure what would constitute making a move at this point? she first caught my attention a couple summers ago , she was a dance instructor , i saw her do some dance moves downtown during a summer festival....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it okey to get family members involved by calling eachothers sister or mother when fighting with your partner?

Me and my boyfriend have been fighting over some things lately. He can be longsighted and hard to just move on and let go from an old argument. He will bring it up and always say "I have done so much for you" I have been...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Don't skip my post, My fiance is going through a pretty harsh custody battle, what should we expect?

My fiance has an almost 3 y/o that was originally taken from the mom at 6 mos of age. Before being removed from the mom's care; my boyfriend, his stepbrother & wife, & bf's dad were considered "supervisors" by children's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does taken guys still compliment me?

This is something that I always find absurd, confusing, and uncomfortable. Recently I reconnected with a college friend, we were cool and he admit he used to have a huge crush on me. When we hung out, he would tell me...

bobalife

Guru Age: 35

Is my boyfriend respectless or am I overreacting?

Hi, My boyfriend and I study at the same place. There is another girl, who, despite being friendly a lot of times, gives me very snide remarks or mocks my weight... I consider her clearly respectless and I have told my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Still thinking about my ex boyfriend but I'm with another guy?

I dated my ex for almost 3 years. I truly loved him but things started to look not so cute towards the end. We would yell and bicker almost every day. I broke off the relationship after a one month break we had from each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

( Ladies) 3rd date etiquette and expectations?

(This is a situation my friend is going through) Been dating somebody for 2+ weeks. Been on 3 dates now, were trying to slow things down and I agree that we did rush into things when we first met, there is definite...

BadzGoneGoodz

Xper 4 Age: 36

Is it ever okay to hurt a girl on purpose, tell her, and still expect her to stay with you?

I've been dating someone for two years. I caught my boyfriend on tinder 3 times and right before Christmas i caught him on bumble. Im tired of suffering and struggling because of somebody elses actions even though he says...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was I being too sensitive?

in a long distance relationship and I went to see my boyfriend on my days off from work and he goes to salsa with a couple of friends so being as I was there with him last night I went too but I felt that he spent more...

catj9999

Explorer Age: 26

Why would my ex hook up with me while sober?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up in Oct 2019 but still live together. We went out new years eve with a friend of his who was in from out of town. So new years eve my ex and I hooked up (drunk) 8 pm new years day rolls...

LilBit070919

Xper 3 Age: 39

Is it stupid to break up with your boyfriend because he is too nice to his female friends?

Okay, I know I sound crazy from the title alone, but hear me out. I am 20, he is 23. He is my first boyfriend. When we met we hit it off right away and rushed into a relationship, so I wasn't to familiar with his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Please answer. How to show your attraction, intention to be serious and to take care without overwhelm a guy?

I tell you the situation: I am dating a man 8 years older than me. We met at Bumble and the relationship has become more complex: we have shared vulnerabilities, we write each day, we have prepared breakfast for each...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, what do you usually do when your boyfriend or husband is sad?

Society tells us man not to show emotions or else we're considered as weak and some women get turned off when the guy is opening up. Do you try to comfort your guy if he's crying for example? And what are the things you...

just_legit1998

Xper 6 Age: 28

Please share, what's your experience of dating someone who started out as a friend of yours?

I'm considering telling one of my male friends that i'd like to date him if he's still interested at all (he has been before and we nearly started dating a year ago). However i'm doubting saying this to him for several...

Anonymous

(30-35)