Search Results: wanting flings

How can I deal with my relationship insecurities?

My fiance is really attractive she is a super kind hearted person and honestly she never given me a reason not to trust her in our few years together. We get along great but we have certain different values. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can girls sense if a guy wants to marry her/wants a long term relationship? What signs can help get that across?

We've known each other for a few years, I run a business, and I want her to know that I'm interested in more than a short-term fling.

Anonymous

(18-24)

I’ve been single my whole life. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with me, so why is this happening?

I’m good looking, sociable, happy living my own life and following my passions. Working on career. Of course I get depressed from time to time. But mostly just because I don’t have anyone to live life with. :/ I’ve met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I expect from this girl I'm texting with?

So a few days ago I randomly downloaded a texting app (not a dating app necessarily) just as a joke, but I actually started texting with a few people I liked in a friendly way, so no dating intentions or anything from me....

FoxmanSenior

Xper 3 Age: 26

Is it possible he wants to be more than friends?

I was rejected a few months ago by a long time fling/ friend. We were teen lovers then recently re connected after both getting divorced. At the beginning he said he only wants to be friends because he doesn’t want to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How often do older men take significantly younger women seriously as romantic parters?

I already know that I prefer significantly older men and I probably will end up seeking relationships with them in a few years. But I don’t want to be seen as a midlife crisis fling or a sexual novelty because of my age.

thegirlfromthething

Guru Age: 24

Break Up & Divorce

I feel too young to settle down?

I’ll be 23 soon. I have a boyfriend that I’ve been dating for 1.5 years. I’ve had 2 previous long term relationships before him. I’ve also had a few flings here and there in between. I’ve had a decent amount of dating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why was he so uninterested on our first date?

I downloaded tinder, I’ve never had a boyfriend except short flings so thought I’d give it a shot. Matched with the loveliest guy ever, so attractive physically and we text back and forth for a few weeks. He was keen to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why are friends with benefits so confusing?

Asked my friends with benefits how long this ”deal” or “fling” is going to last and he said as along as you want it too so should I I even waste my time?

Danny_girl123

Xper 3 Age: 27

I don't want to hurt anyone. How do you kindly get a girl you had a fling with to stop obsessing over you? How does obsession even happen?

She's not a bad person, just not feeling the chemistry. The obsession isn't terrible. She just likes me so much more than the other way around. Maybe this is just with girls who are under 24 and inexperienced... Hmm....

Rab1901

Yoda Age: 35

Advice please! Signs to be on the lookout for?

I think my girlfriend has found someone new and doesn't want to own up to it and I'm not sure why. Kids are involved, she brought to boys into my life that I love as my own and we also have a daughter together. I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

In a relationship, but having feelings for another girl. Dont know what to do?

I am currently in a relationship that has been strong for the most part for a while. It is a long distance relationship. However we did break up at a point in time for about 6 weeks. The reason we broke up was I was...

Thatdude27

Xper 5 Age: 28

Boyfriend wants to play the field?

We have been together for 1.5 years. I’m his first girlfriend. He’s 27 and I’m 22. He got some female attention here and there, but not a ton. He’s only had sex with 4 girls including me. But, he’s had sex with tons of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Whis is this happening. is it me am I I the problem?

I’m feeling pretty broken and low I’ve lost all hope in the matter. So my “ex” like fling cause I’ll be honest I’ve never had a legit boyfriend never fully committed. But this guy he was everything to me for awhile he...

Lexie1239

Xper 5 Age: 25

Family & Friends

How do you help calm an argument that has turned into almost like a feud between 2 people that you care about?

Two people that are very sweet caring passionate individuals got into it with each other and at the end they were both left feeling offended by the other. Now they are flinging insults at each other every chance...

NickiB

Yoda Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

A guy named Travis who I had a sexual fling with last year, texted and called me couple weeks ago and apologized for acting like an asshole to me?

.. all those months ago last year. I had forgiven him because well it did take two... HOWEVER, I think I am attracted to him but I know deep down, he's not attracted to me for whatever reason! How do I get over this? I've...

SueAnon84

Xper 6 Age: 42

He texted me asking to “catch up” after I cut him off? Do I continue ignoring him or give him a chance?

last summer met the most perfect guy, it was a typical summer fling — except he lived hours away. we decided it would not work long distance but remained really close friends. it turned into a “zip code” relationship,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m 38 (my profile says I’m younger). I have really fallen out of the loop with having a group of friends. I’m single and this makes dating tougher?

So years ago in my mid late 20s I used to have a big circle of friends. I was a mma fighter and I did just enough side work to pay rent. I lived in a city with lots of people my age around. It was easy to meet new women....

Anonymous

(36-45)