Waste your time for what? As you said, he is friends with benefits. If you dont need him, then you can go back to just being friends. If you were expecting it to become relationship, then he does not seem to be having the same idea. Besides, it is a bad idea to hook up with someone with the hopes of getting into relationship later.
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That's not confusing. They clearly stated as long as you want it to last. They're leaving control in your hands.
What exactly are you looking for?
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They are only confusing to females, because females try and look for alternate meaning to shit.
He was straight up...
Your fling or deal will last as long as YOU want it too.
It will never be "more"... males don't get attached during sex like you do and most females have that expectation and it's why they get into the friends with benefits. They think we will magically fall for you once we get it, we won't. But YOU will almost always get attached and want more. Which is why you asked if you are wasting your time.
If you want him to "fall for you"... yes, you are wasting your time.
If you provide sex without effort, we will never see you as more than that. You are just a fun time.i think his answer was quite clear and he just said it as it is... im not sure how you can be confused by that. either you want to carry on or you dont but its your decission
So what were you expecting when you foolishly agreed to be in an FWB? You figure it would only be temporary, and if you fucked him enough he would magically change? Why any girl would get into one of those is mind boggling.
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It's not a good lifestyle Its not the proper way to do things
It's very straightforward.
It's just for sex. It's not meant to lead to a real relationship.Because only losers do it
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